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LiveLaughLove:
I spoke with Richard..he was cool. He was saying stuff about my ex which didn't sound correct. Like him being dishonest and him putting up a front and that he made me think he liked me but basically didn't. Honestly I didnt agree with any of that for MANY reasons and it kinda sounded as if he was talking about someone else I was dealing with.

He also noted some other things that were kinda right like me really wanting to take a class that deals with being creative which isn't true. I looked at a class but that it lol.

He's cool but I probably woulda saved my money if I had known it would has been a okay reading.

LiveLaughLove:
And let me say this I'm not saying that he was okay because he didn't tell me what I want to hear regarding my ex-boyfriend I'm saying he was okay because I know that my ex was absolutely smitten with me and if he wasn't he was really good at pretending and this is coming from somebody who was a player all throughout college lol. so either he was a really good con artist or Richard is incorrect and I'm leaning more towards incorrect because more than one person told me he was probably in love with me based on what they knew about our relationship. as far as being dishonest I never really caught him in a lie,we were pretty truthfully with each other there were a few white lies told probably on both sides but nothing where it would be devastating to just cheating or lying about something like major. ( unless its something i dont know about) so I don't agree with that as well. and lastly when it comes to putting up the front he wasn't really like that that's why I thought that is possibly somebody else I was dealing with because he was more a dishonest person and was the person who wasn't necessarily trueful and put up a fromt about his real feelings for me and as far as things are going on in his life that were affecting me and our potential relationship.

Richard did pick up that somebody knew was coming into my life. I asked if it somebody already in my life and he said no but it could be that I just not in a relationship with that person. he also said that my ex will probably try to contact me when things are moving along with this guy but he doesn't see that any communication in the near future as far as like you know January like I've been getting predictions about

FYI: sorry for my sentence structure and punctuation lol. I'm using a talk to text feature on my phone so some sentences are like run ons lol

guesswho:
Yeah, Richard can be on the negative side.  He's more pessimistic that any other reader you'll talk to, but he's usually right.  I've been reading with him for three years.  He's definitely not good at seeing the "good" in people, but he's honest.  I just call him when I want to hear the worst-case scenario.  He'll tell you what's bad about the person you're dealing with when you're too in love to see it. 

For example, he told me my ex was immature, unstable, not worth it, etc., but at the end of the conversation he said "He'd even marry you, but would you want to be married to a guy like that?"  So he'll tell you what you want to know after giving you a good dose of what he wants you to hear.  He's very similar to Uli on CP.  Both very honest and direct readers.

Synergy:
guesswho,

It's interesting that you said he picks up the negative because he started the reading by telling me about the most negative man I've ever had in my life... the father of my children.  He spoke about him and how terrible he is for awhile.  Interestingly, he had great things to say about Chance.  Ultimately, he said Chance just needs to be able to trust me instead of focusing on the negative things his ex did.  We'll see. 

guesswho:
That's great Synergy!  It's a BIG DEAL if he has something positive to say about someone.  Chance must really be a good guy.

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