I debated whether or not to put this in the My Story section or The Vent. I suppose it fits in both.
A veteran friend told me just to get back on my dating apps and find someone to talk to until I feel better. One of the first guys I meet, we have a past connection, we like almost all the same things, he is kind, sweet, considerate, wants to bring me around all his friends and family, wants to make me happy and be there for me, etc. Our first few dates were about 8 hours each so we spent almost an entire weekend hanging out.
Who saw this? Nobody really.
I will make a list:
Kira- has been good for me and really right on regarding the ex. I mean things down to the day almost happening. I read with her days before meeting this guy, like a last hurrah. She likes specific questions and maybe that’s where the issue came in, but we just talked about the ex. She saw, if I let go, new love in the winter.
Kisha- Has never gotten a new person prediction right for me except my ex. And that was after years of not talking to her.
Anne- totally good for a week or two, but after going some days without talking to her, she said in June I’d meet someone in August. I asked about it mid July and she said September. So since we are August/Sept I will count it.
The reader who shall not be named- told me I’d have a surprise on a certain set of days at a certain time of the month. I disregarded it. Honestly I’m at the point where I’m over these predictions that don’t happen or happen differently. So when that weekend came and passed I wasn’t disappointed. She described it as a nice “surprise.” Well lo and behold I met and hung out with him those same set of days a week later. Since it was a vague prediction I can’t say for sure but I want to give points.
Now onto my favorites:
Yona is complicated and I will be doing a post just on her soon. But she never really saw anything in my life but my ex. And I knew it to be him by her descriptions of him which is totally opposite of the new guy. She said the chemistry wouldn’t be there with anyone like it is with him. So far it’s not. But maybe chemistry got me into the sad situation I was in to begin with.
Cookie has maintained that my ex will come back to be friends (Cookie talk) and if I play my cards right I can get more but he will never make me happy. Her only real reference to other men were A) if I let ex go I will meet a man who can give me everything I need, but might not be this year. And B) my ex will come back once I move on and take my focus off of him. He will sense my missing energy 🙄. That other reader predicted the same. I believe we are all energy and we can sense a magnetic pull towards people but I hate that it is used so much. Cookie has also been right about other things like my health, me getting male attention, etc.
So if I look back, honestly, no one really got my current situation. Maybe it’s a blip on the radar and won’t last long. Maybe I’ll update here in a week or a month that I got bored and walked. I honestly can’t say if the ex wanted to see me I wouldn’t make myself available. Who knows. I do find it annoying though that no one saw a new energy.
I honestly don’t even think about my ex coming back anymore. I feel too much has happened and we are both too prideful to reach out. Would I see him if he asked? In a heartbeat. But whenever the thought pops in my head and I think about the simplest answer being the most logical...it’s done.
I will say, that it feels good to live more, have someone be interested in me, treat me well and make me a priority.
