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2011 was the worst year ever!

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4everhopeful:
Misty and all the rest. Please know you are not alone. We all feel the same way. The last 3 years of my life have been hell. Heartbreak is the worst and I still dont understand why I still feel love for a man that walked away from me when things were great. I too spent way too much on psychics and I admit I do call if I have extra money but that is not very often anymore. The funny thing is I still get the same story and a friend of mine is having predictions come through right and left after several years of nothing happening. Suddenly things are happening in her favor. Nothing major yet but small things that point in the right direction.
My advice is this. Lets all concentrate on ourselves this coming year. No more calling psychics. No more dwelling on the past. We all know that past lovers can come back but sometimes they dont. So lets all live our lives to the fullest and just think about us for a change and not the bastards that left us behind. (Pardon my french) Its like one of those cutesy things I put on one of my profiles once.
Heres to the men that love me
The losers that lost me
And to the lucky bastards that get to meet me.
That should be our slogan from now on. We are all intelligent, beautiful, independent, fabulous women. And we deserve better than to cry ourselves to sleep over someone that couldnt see that. If and when they do decide we are the one, they need to fight for us. Lets face it, the women they have to fight for are the women they want. The thrill of the chase and the thrill of achieving victory. So come on girls. See yourself as worthy, thats what Im working on now. Hell, I know Im the best my ex ever had and Im hoping and praying that the day comes that he realizes that. If he doesnt, then Im better off without him anyway. Stand up straight, shoulders back and be proud that God saved us from even worse heartache down the road with these deadbeat men that we all thought were the answer to our prayers. Apparently they were not or they would be by our side now.
Lets not beat ourselves up any longer. Even if the psychics were right about final outcome as I feel some of them are, we have to live our lives to the fullest while awaiting that final outcome. Put it out of your mind and live life. In the end, we will be happier that we did. And remember, what ever is gonna happen is gonna happen, with or without a psychic reading. Maybe not knowing is best.

scorpiogirl:
Absolutely right, 4ever!

Everyone here deserves MUCH better than crying over someone who doesn't want them. I must admit, though I don't have the same psychic problem I had before, I do still call psychics. Just for a quick reading. But I've found my time and money better spent on improving myself and not calling to find out when that certain someone is going to call or come back to me.

I have an amazing person who I can talk to any time, who put me back on the right track and I'm so thankful for her. She made me see my value and I'm so much healthier mentally and physically. And she doesn't charge crazy amounts per minute lol.
I hope you can all be in that same space really soon.

Happy New Year :-)

4everhopeful:
Happy New Year to you Scorpiogirl and to everyone here. I too call from time to time but only once every few months or something now. I dont have the urge that I used to have to make that phone call and hear those nice things. And Ive found that even if they tell me something great, I dont ask for timelines anymore, only final outcome because life can take too many twists and turns before the end result. And it seems that everytime Im ready to throw in the towel, I will suddenly hear from a friend that has been waiting as long as me and will be seeing little things happen that were predicted. In my last reading I asked why I had seen other things happen that were predicted concerning other people or issues but nothing regarding this man. I was told it was all in the timing. People make decisions that arent the right ones sometime. I know this sounds like a copout but actually it really is true when you think about it. And I do have to admit that several of the psychics have described things that they had no way of knowing, specific things pertaining to me and this man. So I have made the decision to concentrate on me, improve myself and my home, work on projects that will make me feel very constructive and give me personal satisfaction. Im not dating anymore until someone comes along that I feel I can really have a good time with and not feel as if Im just trying to replace something I lost. And I have a good start on the improving me part. I have lost 8 lbs and starting January 2, my kids are joining me on this healthier eating thing and more exercise and also the home projects. 2012 is going to be a great year, filled with fun things for me and my family and I will end 2012 in a fresher environment (new paint in the bedrooms) and a more beautiful surrounding for my home (a little landscaping planned). Not much I know but it will make me feel good.
Remember girls and guys, put yourself first, we all deserve it. Save the psychic readings for birthdays or first of the year readings. They are fun and I think we all enjoy them, we just cant take them to heart anymore and sit and wait for predictions to happen.
Good luck to you all in 2012.

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