Honestly I just first started off asking this second time ( last night) when is he reaching out. She predictions September 25 -26 before. She was like anyday but before close to the end of the month but could be sooner. Then I asked by end of the year will be on track for a relationship or stable on in a good spot. She then said yes could actually be a relationship I see see balance and security. And the. I go I know he has fears and she goes he will take ownership of that. And I said okay and ended it. But she could have gone up on that chat and saw what she told me sept 1st. And then today I was just curious and was like when he comes back when does he show the “hey I want more” not fwb or friends and she goes right away. And then I said anything in general you want say or see. She goes I see proposal and ring about year or 9 months. And i was wow, interesting i was little suspicious. But hey it’s life and I don’t know how he is gonna he coming back to me. For shits and giggles i was like so moving in... when do you see that. She goes 1-2 months but I’m not getting. A forsure timeframe ( cop out or truth? ) . Umm. I was let’s pump the brakes, I just need him to do 180 show he can do this relationship thing first and i was thinking we have to be pretty serious if moving in what we are gonna do that.
But I remember her saying on September 1st: going are you sure want to continue this. He does miss you and will reach out but it will be friends no benefits. So we will see.
She also told me no more 12 days which is September 30th, but who knows she could have just looked at the calendar and said that because she said before the end of the month.
I’m not discrediting her at all. But we will see when he reaches out and how it goes coming back
