Hi all! It’s been a while 👋🏽
For the majority of 2017/2018, after a very rough break up I was spending a huge portion of my income on psychic readings. It got so bad that I was choosing readings over paying my bills.
Everyone I spoke to predicted that he would be back, hoping to reconcile... but that I’d have a choice between him and someone else, and that new man would give my ex a run for his money. Throughout my post breakup depression I let myself go, I was at my lowest point ever. Tons of unpaid bills, my weight was out of control... I got myself together and started working out again and feeling good about myself and my ex took notice. However, in November of last year he suddenly started posting pictures of him and a new girl on social media, meanwhile he was still in contact with me on a regular basis. At that point I asked him not to contact me anymore.
Fast forward to now, I’ve been seeing a new man I met at work. Someone that I’d had my eye on back in March of 2018 but I never in a million years thought he’d be interested in me. We’ve been seeing each other since December and he is genuinely the nicest and most genuine man I’ve ever associated myself with. I’ve never heard anyone have anything negative to say about him because he’s just an all around good person. I’m happy and secure with him, but at times I miss what I had with my ex, our connection and his children.
Last week my ex contacted me, he was fishing for information about what’s been going on, blah blah blah. He told me he’s missed me and that I wouldn’t believe how hard it was not to contact me. I told him I miss him but that the ship has sailed. For the next few days following he was texting me throughout the day, and eventually asked if I’d be interested in revisiting things. I thought about it for a second but my new situation (we’re not in an official relationship) makes too much sense to put myself back into the relationship that broke me.
I’d been so jaded about psychic readings. I was under the impression that they were ALL wrong... because my ex chose not one woman over me but two between 2017 and now. Cookie predicted he’d return in summer of last year, but I’m going to count that as summer this year. Everyone else predicted a much shorter timeline and they could’ve been feeding me fairytales but at the end of the day, the predictions that said he’d come back around and have heavy competition turned out to be true.
I’ve stopped reading almost completely at this point, thanks to the forum. I’m going to keep on that track but at least now I don’t think I’ll have such a heavy heart in regards to psychics.
