Ive heard it ad nauseam. "Our connection was/is so powerful", it overwhelmed him, he loved me SO MUCH that he DUMPED me. Say what?
I've heard versions of "He was so badly hurt in a previous relationship, when he fell so hard for you, he panicked and ran" over and over.
Doesn't make sense in the real world though, does it? If a man is madly in love with you, he wants to BE with you.
That's the way life works, right?
It's been a mindbender (not in a good way) to be told something so counter-intuitive to common sense, constantly :-(
Why do they do this?