Ok ok ok...like I’ve seen all these posts seeming as if psychics connect with dark spirits or bring the negativity and all that but I have to ask (I didnt want to but here it goes)
I have so many questions @WinterElf
!! My questions are for pure understanding, not for anything condescending - just wanted to put that out there. Also, I just have a different perspective on this but was just curious.
1. Was there a legit real life reason as to why you were calling psychics about the POI - like some suspicion on his part? I’m asking because for you to actually react that way I feel there had to be some real life suspicion if the readers were saying those things. Case in point, I had a reader that kept telling me a woman was living in my POIs house so much that I plum WENT OFF on him. But my reason was that I NEVER been to his house in REAL LIFE so it appeared to me as a valid reason enough to go off on him. While it didnt ruin our relationship, in the end I did eventually go to his house after a YEAR. Even tho he told me no one lived there. In reality - that girl DID live there - I know it, but he waited until the right time when she was completely moved out and the key was returned to allow me to come in (so I do believe she was out for a while before she gave the key back).
2. Sometimes we have to check our OWN energy. If we are in a negative place - be careful with reading especially with new readers. I believe LIKE attracts LIKE. I’ve had readers give me BS readings before but never in my life had them affect me in a way where I thought that they brought some negativity over me or anything like that. If it was anything negative, it was coming from my conscious or subconcious and had nothing to do with them. However based on where your mentality is, readers can exacerbate what you are ALREADY feeling.
3. “Your luck gets worse and unfortunate things happen”. Sorry I dont believe this at allllll. So readers are the sole reason for this? Things get worse due to negative mentality. Negativity attracts negativity.
While I can definitely AGREE that some of these readers are FLAT OUT wrong and BS - and some of us do take responsibility for our actions but I cannot believe that these readers are like Bad luck charms or something. I always say dont believe everything they tell you until it happens - especially new readers who are not your trusted readers. If you dont have that circle, then definitely take what they say with a grain of salt. (For me I can somewhat trust my small circle of advisors due to consistency of outcomes, HOWEVER, I will NOT act on anything they say in REAL LIFE unless I have evidence to do so).
Maybe I’m a rare one that has gotten a majority of good insights to my POIs - ONLY after I found the right readers for me tho....we all know when we connect with the wrong ones, and they say something that does not match REAL LIFE, we know in our gut they are wrong. However, that shouldn’t allow a negative cloud to hover over you because of their wrong reading - I know its easier said than done but I realize looking back I was just in a negative place (with a POI from the past) and kept attracting the wrong readers. I felt bad not because of them but because of my mentality and how I allowed the POI to TREAT me. I just refuse to blame anything on readers even if they are wrong - we are controllers of our own destiny in the end.
If they play off your fears - what are you fearing? It’s like allowing these people who dont know you have control when you are the one control of YOUR reality in YOUR life - I’m sorry I just dont get the reasoning. Maybe you can help me understand - if you feel like it