Hi All,
Some of you may have followed my story called "The End"
Most of this story had to do with a POI that I had an ongoing situationship for about 14 months.
I wanted to talk about additional lessons learned from this experience with reading about him specifically.
First, some of the lessons I already learned from the past are:
1) Never ask about the outcome - almost 99% of readers get it wrong wether it is positive or negative
2) Try to ask open ended questions when you can - for example "Whats coming up between x and me" if it is about a POI. Some readers' accuracy goes down with specific questions, but when they pick up stuff on their own it appears to be more accurate.
3) LIVE IN REALITY - sometimes we get caught up in readings and it would distract us from what is really going on! If what they are predicting sounds so far fetched, in addition to your gut, it probably is.
New Lessons Learned specifically about romantic relationships (when in contact):
1. Sometimes readers pick up a POI INTENT rather than what they will actually DO For example,
Mattie picked up me and the new guy walking and talking and taking a hike, but we
talked about it but it never happened.
Cookie talked about how my (old) POI wanted to take me
out - several times - but it didnt happen as much as she said. Those were probably thoughts he never
acted on.
2. Stuff can get MIXED UP!This happened ALOT with Yona and Cookie. Cookie would "see" things but it would actually be with someone else. She assumed when she saw a tall man with a low cut she assumed that guy was my POI, when in fact it was a guy friend of mine. She confused him! My friend stayed with me for a month and a half transitioning back to my city until he found an apartment. During that time I met and interacted with his daughter. Cookie thought this was my POI the entire time - she kept seeing positive changes and me meeting my POIs daughter, him cooking at my house and sleeping over - that was ALLLL my guy friend. She did get a major hit right - me going to the POIs house and we did sleep over each others houses alot but it came to a complete halt in March. But she was mixing it up!
Yona - While I love Yona - she mixes stuff up too. Often times she would see a situation where the Tower would be for my POI, when it actually was for ME! In the exact same prediction. She would sometimes get predictions between me and my POI flipped around - which was kind of annoying - so I had to be conscious of that. Some of us who have used Yona know that sometimes she could be referring to a completely different person than you think. The ONLY way ive found to validate it is the person you are thinking of is if she validates certain descriptors on her own - and if she does and it is not that person in the prediction - she was just wrong.
Also - Yona can pick up the SAME person multiple times in the same reading with different descriptions - so pay attention to the PREDICTION itself and not the person. My poi would come up 2 ways 1) Older man with Brown Eyes - when it was not a romantic interaction and 2) Man of Interest or Person of Interest when it was a romantic interaction.
3. Readers can up often also mix up FEELINGs as a TRAJECTORY into the future.
There was NO denying my POI had feelings for me. BUT because they could ALWAYS pick up his feelings including things he actually said to me - they often SIDED with him when I read about other guys I dated (even though they were right that the others wouldnt last lol). They ALWAYs saw him as this great potential because of that. Yona would always pick up us as a COUPLE in her readings when we really werent - she was just picking up loving energy between us lol
4. Heed warnings from readers as I've found MOST to be trueLiterally ALLLLL my readers told me he was going to be inconsistent and he was. This definitely helped me on what to expect and probably part of the reason I kept my head with dealing with him. They all saw his emotions but still heeded and cautioned me about not giving it all in...thank God. But yet they all saw him IN my life for a WHILE.
So I wanted to share my lessons, anything you would like to share?
