Thank you Grounded.....and everyone. As for my dad not telling me right away....let's just say I'm the queen of aloof, and he didn't know I would care. When my ex continued to see my parents, I asked them to never talk to him about me or my life. I figured why should he know without asking me, right?
By the way, every reader told me he stayed in contact with my parents to keep a door open to me, that he hadn't let me go, and never would...HA! What a load of shit! Bottom line people....he liked liked them, especially my dad.It had NOTHING to do with me. Usually the answer is right under our nose, but we so desperately want to hear something different and have our ego soothed.
