Hey listen take your time. Took me 3.5 years to get over this guy!! Friends kept telling me to date in the meanwhile. But I didn’t feel like it. I joined dating sites but it didn’t sit right with me. I put all my heartache into working hard and turning my finances around. I made sure that first started with psychics (to stop calling to save money) so I took up therapy. One of the best things I invested in was therapy!! I then took some online finance classes, joined a support/help group for the classes where there were several calls per week on zoom. On the zoom calls I met this wonderful new man!! It’s great we have so much in common. I read a book on depression and it talks about how we need nature (going outside) and people around us (the right ones) to feel better again. We need to be apart of a community and not close off on our phones. We are built as humans to be around people, be in nature and feel apart of a community. It’s no wonder now in this modern age that people feel low and depressed! I was talking about this with my hairdresser . She has some very wealthy clients and they say to her “I just done my yoga, my meditation, my skincare routine, my self love, listened to a podcast yet I still feel low!” Well they have shut themselves off from the outside world.
I hope this helps. I feel you when I was reading your message and sending you positivity, light and healing your way xx
No psychic predicted at all what I mentioned the above.
Some books I recommend that helped me turn things around were:
“Losing Eden” - Lucy Jones
“Lost Connections” - Johann Hari