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Dreamer23:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on March 15, 2019, 05:13:17 PM ---It's very hard when you develop the habit of getting readings to help you feel better..it's a very unhealthy way to deal with things. It's one thing if you can take the readings with a grain of salt, and then be ok with whatever happens in your life regardless..but when you start using them as a crutch, that's when the trouble starts..and that's when it becomes so hard to stop, because you were used to using them for so long to help you feel better that when you stop, or try to stop, you are left with this void...from both the POI (if things didn't work out) and the readings. that's why it's so hard to "cold turkey"..like any addiction.
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This is very well said. I think that's when the problem starts, when readings are used to feel better. That's when binges happen and when you have way too many readings as a way to cope.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on March 15, 2019, 05:32:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on March 15, 2019, 05:13:17 PM ---It's very hard when you develop the habit of getting readings to help you feel better..it's a very unhealthy way to deal with things. It's one thing if you can take the readings with a grain of salt, and then be ok with whatever happens in your life regardless..but when you start using them as a crutch, that's when the trouble starts..and that's when it becomes so hard to stop, because you were used to using them for so long to help you feel better that when you stop, or try to stop, you are left with this void...from both the POI (if things didn't work out) and the readings. that's why it's so hard to "cold turkey"..like any addiction.
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This is very well said. I think that's when the problem starts, when readings are used to feel better. That's when binges happen and when you have way too many readings as a way to cope.
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thanks :)
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