Damn, that Mattie thread was 35 pages in. Lots of good stuff in there. Wonder what happened.
I wonder if it was because if my actions and unkind words during that rough day. If it was I am SO sorry, everybody:( if it was my fault, I dont want to cause you all to lose that hope through losing that thread too. I'm really sorry:(
I've been debating posting my opinion on this as I can tell you feel quite badly, Josh, but it could have been pulled down for the profanity. That's stated clearly in the terms and while that have been lots of other posts with swearing ... that was pretty over-the-top.
@Josh, please know that I don't hold it against you as you have apologized several times and clearly regret it, and we ALL have days when we are not our best and say things we regret.
That said, I'm kind of surprised how many members here -- many female -- are giving the language a complete pass. (Note, I'm not talking about the person, I mean the language). I'm a bit older and maybe old school... but I hope I never have the see that again, particularly directed at a person. Calling someone the C word is just too far for me. And just before I get shouted down on that:
a) As I said, I admit I may be a bit old school; and
b) I am not saying all kinds of other insults, digs, swears, name-calling are ok...I am for keeping it cleaner and kinder in general