BITWINE-- Diana Hart

[sawthelight]

Great post Pinky! yes exactly, these life lessons are not always easy, at all.  But they do help you grow.  You learn a lot about yourself in the process too.

It took me months and months to start to see light at the end of the tunnel after that first POI.then I met another guy who I liked and that didn't work out either, so....it was hard to go through all that.  But I DO believe that things happen for a reason.  I now see I never would have lasted in a relationship withe the first guy I called about..I had blinders on the whole time I was pining after him and calling psychics about him.  Even if he came back now, and offered me everything I wanted then, I would decline because I don't feel the same as I did then.  I more get sad when I think about all the time wasted on him, and the way I let him treat me..that's what I find depressing. 

I prayed a lot on that guy but I had to learn my lesson, and God finally removed him from my path.  I'm so grateful for that.

[happyk]

Hi! I read with her in January, 2018. She was correct on the current but her future predictions were wrong. She had said that my then POI will be back in six months but it's been over a year and no word but she also said I'd want to date and will be tired of waiting which was absolutely correct. She said I'd meet someone in the second half of Feb of that year through a friend which also never happened. I won't read with her again but she didn't seem to give false hope.

Maybe she's a good empath 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

Possibly, but damn I'm done with empaths. I need an outcome reader but I'm don't now. After reading with Kisha today, I'm done. Depressed and done.

I know what you mean, I've never read with Kisha but you know something I've noticed? Sometimes the thing we want the most prediction-wise, they start to come true after we let go /give it up to the universe /move on. It's the hardest thing to do of course but I've really noticed this especially when it comes to like, getting a poi to return. It's almost like, energetically they sense you moving on and they return to throw you off again lol. But in ut general sense of predictions, nothing is set in stone, the future is malleable and just by expecting a certain outcome, it can change the way we react to things and affect the future outcome... so the best bet is to focus on the present, turn all of your energy toward yourself and raise your vibration. You'll be amazed at how many good things come to you when you're in a happy place (just speaking from experience) if readings are giving you anxiety, maybe you should take a little break from them? Best of wishes xxxx 🤗❤️

Agree with this so much.  My first POI did that so many times, came back just to throw me off and mess with my emotions again.

I remember right at the end, right before I stopped hearing from him all together, I prayed to God to help me navigate this, to either remove him from my life completely, or to give me some sign that something would transpire between us.  And right after that, the POI stopped contacting me.  So I believe God was answering my prayers....and I am so grateful for that...as hard as it was to move on from him (it still hurts sometimes when I really sit and think about it), I know it was for the best....

I'm so sorry you had to go through that saw 😔😢 i don't know if this is God or the universe's way of refining us? A way of making us learn to develop strength and resilience? In your case, maybe it hurts now but someday further on in time it'll become clear that maybe even though you went through all of these trysts and heartache, that in all the time you thought you were fighting to get things to work in your favor, that at the end of the day, in the grand scope of things it's revealed that the universe was always working in your favor ❤️

I remember my first love, we almost got married (story of my life lmao 🤣) but yeah I loved him  unconditionally and when he left me 3yrs later I ran him down, did all of the textbook wrong things to do in the aftermath of a breakup. I didn't know how to move on, pick up the pieces, was young so no money or CC for psychics at the time lol man I prayed to God so hard and I ultimately angry with God and stopped talking to him for years (probably 8yrs) because I felt like soooo many traumatic things were happening in my life that the universe was working 100% against me. I almost gave up on life a few times in between as well, was really depressed. It was only until 10yrs later I saw that the Universe was actually working FOR me, I was just unwilling to accept, was going against the grain. I'm grateful now that my first love left me, he would've cheated on me repeatedly and my life would've been miserable. Not to mention I would've missed out on so many life lessons, I learned to be independent, I accomplished things on my own that he thought I needed him for  I traveled, in fact he tried to cheat on the girl he's in a long term relationship with, with me, several times, he contacted me to hook up, date, whatever, while with her, after 5,7,8 years. I just block /ignore him. But I guess what I mean to say is, in the moment, it feels like nothing is working for you, you're being put onto a new path and the road isn't easy but sometimes there's a greater plan in store, something that'll make you a greater person someone who can even help people, a. Lightworker if you will. Predictions can give you a glimpse of the future, but the best thing we can all do is stand in our power no matter what comes our way, invest in ourselves, and keep walking forward, what is to be will be, what is for us will be for us, whoever /whatever will fall into place in our forward path and if they don't, then they are not FOR us....❤️

I wonder what would our POIs think of us if they were to know the amount of turmoil we've had to go through because of them and the amount of money we spend on psychics to find out things that we might already know but are not able to accept. But then I also feel sorry for the POIs because they were unable to accept love. What a loss it is! We lost someone who didn't care for us much apparently but they lost someone who loved them and accepted then for who they are/were. May be we are better off without them. ♥️♥️

[sawthelight]

Happy, you are so right...being unable to accept love is a flaw and loss for them, not us. 

I personally feel my first POI knew he was hurting me a lot and eventually started to feel bad about it.  I say eventually because I don't think he felt bad at all, in the beginning, was only after his own selfish needs.  But after time went on and he cared a bit, he started to feel guilt..and that (I think) was a new emotion for him to experience, I don't think he really ever felt bad for his actions before.  I don't think he liked that feeling, being vulnerable and actually caring for someone, so he would just pull away and act weird. 

It was such an emotional mindf*k, and at the end, I was just praying to be released from it! 

[PinkyD]

Idk if these things are like, soul lessons. You know how they say your soul is sent here on earth to learn lessons and these people who affect us so profoundly were actually destined to do so, to help us learn from situations and how to process pain? 🤔 I used to research psychics and mediums a lot and somehow in the process I learned about spirit guides, soulmates, your soul's purpose here on earth, destiny vs free will and it really helped me understand why people act the way they do, and why, if something bad happens, how we deal with it aids in the greater development of our soul...i know it sounds really "out there" but that's what helped me survive I guess. Sometimes we give our power away to other people, our poi, readings when we should be investing in ourselves, doing the best towards others and ourselves too.
 I love readings though lol it's like a guilty pleasure lol and when anxiety hits, it's like my lifeline (bad I know) that's me giving my power away. I do believe psychics (legitimate ones, Lightworkers only, because some can be negative) can steer us in the right direction, relay messages from our guides, a good psychic will always try to help you move toward the path that will be of your highest interest. And sometimes we know too, intuitively, when a situation or person is draining but we're like moth to a flame lol we don't always seek our very own highest interest 😔

[happyk]

Right! I wonder if they're gonna grow old lonely, cranky and miserable or they're gonna settle with their last option because they're getting too old and their eggs are getting fried and make that woman feel special by telling  her he eventually decided to settle with her because she's the most special woman he's ever met. lol. what a joke!

[PinkyD]

Hi! I read with her in January, 2018. She was correct on the current but her future predictions were wrong. She had said that my then POI will be back in six months but it's been over a year and no word but she also said I'd want to date and will be tired of waiting which was absolutely correct. She said I'd meet someone in the second half of Feb of that year through a friend which also never happened. I won't read with her again but she didn't seem to give false hope.

Maybe she's a good empath 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

Possibly, but damn I'm done with empaths. I need an outcome reader but I'm don't now. After reading with Kisha today, I'm done. Depressed and done.

I know what you mean, I've never read with Kisha but you know something I've noticed? Sometimes the thing we want the most prediction-wise, they start to come true after we let go /give it up to the universe /move on. It's the hardest thing to do of course but I've really noticed this especially when it comes to like, getting a poi to return. It's almost like, energetically they sense you moving on and they return to throw you off again lol. But in ut general sense of predictions, nothing is set in stone, the future is malleable and just by expecting a certain outcome, it can change the way we react to things and affect the future outcome... so the best bet is to focus on the present, turn all of your energy toward yourself and raise your vibration. You'll be amazed at how many good things come to you when you're in a happy place (just speaking from experience) if readings are giving you anxiety, maybe you should take a little break from them? Best of wishes xxxx 🤗❤️

Agree with this so much.  My first POI did that so many times, came back just to throw me off and mess with my emotions again.

I remember right at the end, right before I stopped hearing from him all together, I prayed to God to help me navigate this, to either remove him from my life completely, or to give me some sign that something would transpire between us.  And right after that, the POI stopped contacting me.  So I believe God was answering my prayers....and I am so grateful for that...as hard as it was to move on from him (it still hurts sometimes when I really sit and think about it), I know it was for the best....

I'm so sorry you had to go through that saw 😔😢 i don't know if this is God or the universe's way of refining us? A way of making us learn to develop strength and resilience? In your case, maybe it hurts now but someday further on in time it'll become clear that maybe even though you went through all of these trysts and heartache, that in all the time you thought you were fighting to get things to work in your favor, that at the end of the day, in the grand scope of things it's revealed that the universe was always working in your favor ❤️

I remember my first love, we almost got married (story of my life lmao 🤣) but yeah I loved him  unconditionally and when he left me 3yrs later I ran him down, did all of the textbook wrong things to do in the aftermath of a breakup. I didn't know how to move on, pick up the pieces, was young so no money or CC for psychics at the time lol man I prayed to God so hard and I ultimately angry with God and stopped talking to him for years (probably 8yrs) because I felt like soooo many traumatic things were happening in my life that the universe was working 100% against me. I almost gave up on life a few times in between as well, was really depressed. It was only until 10yrs later I saw that the Universe was actually working FOR me, I was just unwilling to accept, was going against the grain. I'm grateful now that my first love left me, he would've cheated on me repeatedly and my life would've been miserable. Not to mention I would've missed out on so many life lessons, I learned to be independent, I accomplished things on my own that he thought I needed him for  I traveled, in fact he tried to cheat on the girl he's in a long term relationship with, with me, several times, he contacted me to hook up, date, whatever, while with her, after 5,7,8 years. I just block /ignore him. But I guess what I mean to say is, in the moment, it feels like nothing is working for you, you're being put onto a new path and the road isn't easy but sometimes there's a greater plan in store, something that'll make you a greater person someone who can even help people, a. Lightworker if you will. Predictions can give you a glimpse of the future, but the best thing we can all do is stand in our power no matter what comes our way, invest in ourselves, and keep walking forward, what is to be will be, what is for us will be for us, whoever /whatever will fall into place in our forward path and if they don't, then they are not FOR us....❤️

I wonder what would our POIs think of us if they were to know the amount of turmoil we've had to go through because of them and the amount of money we spend on psychics to find out things that we might already know but are not able to accept. But then I also feel sorry for the POIs because they were unable to accept love. What a loss it is! We lost someone who didn't care for us much apparently but they lost someone who loved them and accepted then for who they are/were. May be we are better off without them. ♥️♥️

Idk but I wonder if they were probably narcissists to begin with? Lol 🤔 🤣

Tbh, if they didn't value us, that's on them. We have to value ourselves. We have to draw our line in the sand, stand up and say I am worth much more than how they have defined us, by words or by actions. Once we start setting boundaries for ourselves, no-one will be able to devalue us. And yes you're right, we're probably better off without them, and if they come back around, we have the power to choose to let them stay out in the cold or let them back in. But our love is valuable, and if they take it for granted, that's on them.

[happyk]

Idk if these things are like, soul lessons. You know how they say your soul is sent here on earth to learn lessons and these people who affect us so profoundly were actually destined to do so, to help us learn from situations and how to process pain? 🤔 I used to research psychics and mediums a lot and somehow in the process I learned about spirit guides, soulmates, your soul's purpose here on earth, destiny vs free will and it really helped me understand why people act the way they do, and why, if something bad happens, how we deal with it aids in the greater development of our soul...i know it sounds really "out there" but that's what helped me survive I guess. Sometimes we give our power away to other people, our poi, readings when we should be investing in ourselves, doing the best towards others and ourselves too.
 I love readings though lol it's like a guilty pleasure lol and when anxiety hits, it's like my lifeline (bad I know) that's me giving my power away. I do believe psychics (legitimate ones, Lightworkers only, because some can be negative) can steer us in the right direction, relay messages from our guides, a good psychic will always try to help you move toward the path that will be of your highest interest. And sometimes we know too, intuitively, when a situation or person is draining but we're like moth to a flame lol we don't always seek our very own highest interest 😔

You know someone said older the soul, harder the lesson so that may be true. In astrology there's a way to see what you need to work on in this life time, where a lot of our energy is focused but we are actually supposed to work on it. May be we all focus too much on relationship but our lesson here is to be able to love ourselves and shift the focus on ourselves.

I know about the guilty pleasures. Sometimes I'll contact them just because. That's horrible, isn't it?

[sawthelight]

Personally, for me anyway, that first guy was a lesson I could have gone without lol but I definitely learned about self-respect and self-worth from my experience with him.  I don't tolerate mixed signals from men anymore, in the slightest.  If you give me the run around, or make me question anything, I'm out..no looking back.

 Men can be complicated and closed off but I don't think most men would treat a woman he values with disinterest or hot and cold behavior, I just don't.  Sure, maybe if they are going through something in their lives but if that's the case, then they probably shouldn't be dating and leading women on to begin with.

[PinkyD]

Idk if these things are like, soul lessons. You know how they say your soul is sent here on earth to learn lessons and these people who affect us so profoundly were actually destined to do so, to help us learn from situations and how to process pain? 🤔 I used to research psychics and mediums a lot and somehow in the process I learned about spirit guides, soulmates, your soul's purpose here on earth, destiny vs free will and it really helped me understand why people act the way they do, and why, if something bad happens, how we deal with it aids in the greater development of our soul...i know it sounds really "out there" but that's what helped me survive I guess. Sometimes we give our power away to other people, our poi, readings when we should be investing in ourselves, doing the best towards others and ourselves too.
 I love readings though lol it's like a guilty pleasure lol and when anxiety hits, it's like my lifeline (bad I know) that's me giving my power away. I do believe psychics (legitimate ones, Lightworkers only, because some can be negative) can steer us in the right direction, relay messages from our guides, a good psychic will always try to help you move toward the path that will be of your highest interest. And sometimes we know too, intuitively, when a situation or person is draining but we're like moth to a flame lol we don't always seek our very own highest interest 😔

You know someone said older the soul, harder the lesson so that may be true. In astrology there's a way to see what you need to work on in this life time, where a lot of our energy is focused but we are actually supposed to work on it. May be we all focus too much on relationship but our lesson here is to be able to love ourselves and shift the focus on ourselves.

I know about the guilty pleasures. Sometimes I'll contact them just because. That's horrible, isn't it?

Haha I knowww I do that too just for the sake of it, but then I get anxiety if I get a negative reading that may very well be fake 🤣🤣 I guess if it's just for the fun of it, it's not so bad 🙃

Btw, yes I could definitely see that, older the soul harder the lesson. We feel things more profoundly, we need to process and work through things xxxx

[happyk]

Personally, for me anyway, that first guy was a lesson I could have gone without lol but I definitely learned about self-respect and self-worth from my experience with him.  I don't tolerate mixed signals from men anymore, in the slightest.  If you give me the run around, or make me question anything, I'm out..no looking back.

 Men can be complicated and closed off but I don't think most men would treat a woman he values with disinterest or hot and cold behavior, I just don't.  Sure, maybe if they are going through something in their lives but if that's the case, then they probably shouldn't be dating and leading women on to begin with.

You're right. Anytime a man gives me hot and cold I'll be like b*tch bye in the future.

[PinkyD]

Right! I wonder if they're gonna grow old lonely, cranky and miserable or they're gonna settle with their last option because they're getting too old and their eggs are getting fried and make that woman feel special by telling  her he eventually decided to settle with her because she's the most special woman he's ever met. lol. what a joke!

Hahaha I'm sure they'll get what they deserve. And they'll probably even try to weasel their way back into your life later on when things are going swell and you're wayyy ahead....

[sawthelight]

that's my new motto...don't waste your time. 

Most people I know who are in good/healthy relationships did not have to go through that in the beginning.  It just took off naturally and without games.  that's the way it should be. 

[happyk]

Right! I wonder if they're gonna grow old lonely, cranky and miserable or they're gonna settle with their last option because they're getting too old and their eggs are getting fried and make that woman feel special by telling  her he eventually decided to settle with her because she's the most special woman he's ever met. lol. what a joke!

Hahaha I'm sure they'll get what they deserve. And they'll probably even try to weasel their way back into your life later on when things are going swell and you're wayyy ahead....

Right!! Look at yourselves guys, I'm sure we're all actually better than then anyways. F*cking losers.

[sawthelight]

I think deep down we know the answers...having to get a psychic reading on the first guy should have been my first clue something was wrong.  Having to get 2+ years of readings on him, well...that speaks for itself lol.

I enjoy getting a reading here and there too, but I'm SOO much better than I was. 

the hardest part for me (in giving up readings the way I used to get them) was to find something else to occupy my time lol!  I was so used to the habit of "hmmm I'm bored and overthinking a dead end situation, let me hop on bitwine and see what a reader tells me"..it was bad!  I had to reroute my thoughts and find something better to do with my time and money lol.

[PinkyD]

Personally, for me anyway, that first guy was a lesson I could have gone without lol but I definitely learned about self-respect and self-worth from my experience with him.  I don't tolerate mixed signals from men anymore, in the slightest.  If you give me the run around, or make me question anything, I'm out..no looking back.

 Men can be complicated and closed off but I don't think most men would treat a woman he values with disinterest or hot and cold behavior, I just don't.  Sure, maybe if they are going through something in their lives but if that's the case, then they probably shouldn't be dating and leading women on to begin with.

You're right. Anytime a man gives me hot and cold I'll be like b*tch bye in the future.

Hahaha lmao I love this approach happy!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😍💪