Good evening all,
I suppose I am just venting... perhaps I am seeking out about your own experiences. But since last month, I have been on a bit of a binge with this forum and making my own calls to random psychics. Now, I will say that I tend to be rather limited in the details I provide... usually stating things like 'That is accurate' or 'I would agree.'
The first psychic blew me away... with just my name, this psychic seemed to know what I was calling about (but, to be honest, most of us - I would imagine - are calling about relationships). However, the psyhic also mentioned some additional details about my POI... including this person's lack of dating history, things my POI had said. This psychic's advice seemed to make sense... "POI didn't expect to fall in love... she didn't think, at the beginning, that you were her type, but she fell completely in love you. However, the relationship was moving far too quickly for her and it scared her, caused pressure, and out of her fear she broke it off. She's taking control of the relationship and slowing it down." Really, I had only given our names (don't believe DOBs), and then the psychic said something about "Double 2's." Well, on the 22nd, I got a letter in the mail from the POI... didn't quite say what I wanted, but this psychic did indicate I would receive something on double 2's... so I guess that counts? He also mentioned that my POI's parents went through something similar after they got married... I know this for a fact because I once took my POI's mother out for coffee where she discussed this.
I also spoke with two other seemingly reputably psychics on this same network, and they both, in their own way, described the same situation... with just my name they indicated that "she broke it off out of fear/pressure, this was her first real relationship and you are her first real love, she was being pulled in too many directions, she loves you but is afraid of the finality of marriage although she wants to get married and have a family, she is confused/regretful about her decision, she wants you back but is unsure how to proceed, the separation must run its course, etc." One psychic even went so far, within the first 30 seconds, to describe my previous career, my current career, and my POI's current career. So, I felt "at ease" with thinking that they seemed to be correct or have some talent.
However, I continued calling other psychics looking for confirmation I suppose, which is rather silly if you think about it. I mean, they could all be wrong, right? I spoke to two psychics on Keen who said similar stories of, "She is heart-broken, she wants you, the relationship was moving too fast, there is misery through separation for both of you, but movement forward as she slowly realizes her mistake, etc." I guess you could call these fairy-tale readings, right? I mean, who doesn't want a happy ending? I did call one of these psychics in December after my POI and I had an emotional discussion (certainly not an argument) and the psychic described it and indicated that we would have a break-through in January though I would likely start pushing again... which I did. I would say that we did have a break-through as my ex and I agreed that January was one of the happiest months of the relationship... until I started poking about marriage again.
Yet, my calls didn't end there. After browsing this forum, I found a few names on Bitwine who seemed to be highly reputable. All four of these psychics wanted first names and DOBs, and, not to my surprise, all said similar things... "She is heart-broken, she is remorseful, she still keeps the memories and gifts you gave her, she will contact you... but, when she does reach out, she will be scared you won't answer and that you won't let her in, she is/will be terrified that you won't give her opportunity to restore what she broke."
I guess I am somewhat skeptical of most of these readings despite the fact that I strongly desire my POI back. What bothers me the most is that most of these psychics gave roughly the same outcome "She will re-establish communication, and you two will have another opportunity, but you need to be more keenly aware of the pressure she puts on herself," and they all had roughly the same time frame... between 3rd week of March to some time in early May. Most said that marriage is definitely a possibility, with two saying that we are very compatible - based on the pre-marriage books my POI and I read together, and the questions we asked of each other, I would agree.
The only psychic who said, "You will definitely not get back together" was Shaman Kira, although admittedly I did word my question in a way that might insinuate a fight or conflict.
I read with these psychics:
AskNow: Denny, Clarissa, Jozette
Bitwine: Miss Ann, Psychic Ari, Rune Mistress, Rekha
Keen: Fairie Moon Child, Miss Marla.
Is it wrong to think that since so many see a happy ending that it is possible? I don't know... I have largely let go of the pain of loss over the last several weeks. Truthfully, I do want the POI back, as, for the first time in my life, I genuinely felt like I found "the one" for me.
For those who keep calling looking for reassurances, take the time after a break-up, regardless of how raw the pain is, to go no contact and work on yourself. You are worth more than the anxiety that you will draw upon yourself wondering which psychic is right, which is wrong, and when predicted events will take place.
