If 2 people love each other, that is one thing, but it can be very painful to hang on to someone who isn't emotionally available, or not ready to be with you, or whatever the case may be that someone is getting readings about. And by trying to keep that connection alive it never gets a chance to grow and move beyond whatever is holding it back. It sounds like such a cliche but it's true, if you love someone set them free, and if it is meant to be you will find each other again. Getting readings does not help, it holds things in place.
Truth but this has NOTHING to do with psychics it’s about how balanced and secure you are as a human to begin with. Most of my friends do not call psychics and they are a mess when they go thru divorce and break ups. Alcohol and other abuse....
Getting readings has everything to do with it. Saying that people can be dysfunctional in other ways does not mean readings have nothing to do with it. People choose their poison. But emotional shocks or loss can rock even the most balanced and secure people. You never know how you will cope with something until it happens to you. Readings are a bad habit to fall back on if you go through a severe shock or stress. The same with alcohol, the person who never had more than one glass of wine a day might start drinking it by the bottle if life goes sideways. Our habits are everything and they are what make us balanced and secure. It's best not to form habits at things that have to be kept under control because we are all vulnerable to losing control. Thinking you can handle everything or control things is exactly the kind of pride that goes before a fall.
Yes - but honestly how often do people get readings when everything in their life is going perfectly? Readers helped me tremendously get through my breakup. I luckily found this site early on and called and spoke mostly only with the recommended ones. Empaths helped me sort through what happened a little bit and some of the big guns (Yona, Kisha, Mattie) - have given predictions and timelines that are in the near future for me (some of Yona's have started). I am at the point now where I can let go and see if the predictions come to pass. I am okay if they do not...... I feel the journey over the past few months actually helped me heal and move on and know things will be okay.
I realize what you are saying, there could be people who keep hanging on to predictions and when they dont pass they binge on more readings or some other form of abusive/unhealthy behavior. But can we blame this on the psychics? It does not make them "fake" or "dishonest". I am not sure we will ever know why some things come to pass and others dont? We can all debate - free will, destiny, LOA, high and low vibrations and other energy, did i get too many readings? But there is no way to truly know why some redictions happen and others dont?