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My Story

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Tango:
Synergy, I think that you are exactly right. You should go with whatever your heart tells you. I think that you're doing great by letting this new person in and giving him a chance, because he deserves one and you deserve to be happy no matter what. I don't think it's right for any psychic to tell you what to do. Isn't that unethical? They're here to give insight and to guide, but ultimately the choice is up to us! It's our life and really, what VR might think is a good match for you is HER opinion and that can be totally different from your opinion of what's good for you.

glasshalffull, I have pulled out some notes and found that I read with even more psychics than I thought while I looked for Seha's notes. Awful!

Genessa - there would be a little connection in November (absolutely nothing!) and then reconnection in January

Chastity - I would hear from him before Halloween; he has been thinking of me (didn't happen)

Maeve - his girlfriend is involved with someone else (couldn't verify) and there would be some reconnection in Dec/Jan (doubtful about this one, has yet to pass)

Seren - told me I would be in a relationship by December and that I would choose between 2 men (hasn't happened yet) and they should break up in the next few days if her timeline is correct (also doubtful)

Tansy - we would communicate, he might try to get back together with me, and I would find a new man within 2 years who is stable and marry him (communication prediction did not occur)

Vicki Joy - communication in Sept with hopes to be in a relationship with me again; currently focusing on money (did not pan out)

Leo - he loves her and she loves him, I was a rebound and didn't mean anything but sex

And here's Seha's (this was back at the end of August) - they would break up soon; Sept. for contact; it may take 6 months for me to trust him again but I will see improvements; career change in 1 year

Sadly, everything happened completely the opposite. They didn't break up, no contact at all in Sept, the prediction of me taking 6 months to trust him can't happen because there isn't even an opportunity to try to trust him, and a career change happened in 1 month, not one year! I'd say that's pretty off, unfortunately


sunandmoon - it wasn't really a timeline from Dave, he just said that things would get better between us in January

Looking through my old notes is both really embarrassing and really sad. I can't believe that I've read with so many people and I can't believe that I haven't had a single thing happen!

The worst part is that these psychics tell you that contact will happen and it doesn't. You get your hopes up and you wait and wait and wait for absolutely nothing. I think that's the worst thing a psychic can do because it gives you hope when there isn't any. Lots of the psychics I have spoken to have also told me "if I didn't see a future with you and this man at all and if I didn't see him coming back, I would be the first one to tell you." I call BS!

Starrlite:
You are so right!  This is BS!  Don't understand why I keep calling.  If I followed their advice, I would be spending more money on psychics and less money enjoying my life.  I do not want to keep waiting for my ex when there are so many other men out there.  I am currently dating a new man.  I don't feel the SM connection but he's nice and fun.  All the psychics are telling me that he's so bad for me but that's something I want to find out for myself

Tango:
I agree Starrlite, I just want to live my life and I think that's what all of us should do, even though sometimes it can be really hard.

Life is short so we should enjoy it as much as we can! I don't think we have to completely abandon the idea of being with our SM, but I do think it's important to change the focus. You can only have one conscious thought at a time, so use that conscious thought to think about someone who does make you happy, not someone who makes you sad! That's what I'm trying to do. I know for sure with 100% certainty that if the tables were turned and I did what my SM did to me back to him, he wouldn't be calling psychics all the time wondering if I would come back. In fact, I'm pretty sure he would have moved on almost immediately after...

If you meet someone who treats you well and makes you happy and he's fun, then why not? I don't believe in passing up opportunities. I just haven't had any guys interested in me who I was also interested in, that's my problem unfortunately.

sunandmoon:

--- Quote from: Starrlite on December 07, 2011, 11:52:01 PM ---You are so right!  This is BS!  Don't understand why I keep calling.  If I followed their advice, I would be spending more money on psychics and less money enjoying my life.  I do not want to keep waiting for my ex when there are so many other men out there.  I am currently dating a new man.  I don't feel the SM connection but he's nice and fun.  All the psychics are telling me that he's so bad for me but that's something I want to find out for myself

--- End quote ---

Wow! I was told not so good things either about my new guy before I started to date him (a couple said I'd be happy with either man, Tansy said she felt I had more in common with the new man).

I wonder if they say that because it keeps us calling? So much of this goes on the law of averages IMO. Yes, many people get back together after a break up. If we start to see someone else seriously, we will be happy and high on endorphins and will we want to call as much anymore (my urge passed once I stopped obsessing about my ex)? If they tell us (and can convince us) the new guy is bad and to wait for the old guy since he's just around the corner, that will keep us calling when timelines pass.

My .02 (or many thousands????)

BTW I have 147 saved notes on my computer and a folder full of handwritten ones. I called from June 2010 to Labor Day this year. Plus a few email readings. Plus some forums. Ouch.

Tango:
sunandmoon, that could be very true...but I really hope that the majority of readers don't try to keep us on the line or keep us hanging on for no reason. I'm hoping that most psychics try their best to give us advice that is beneficial to us. If I just wanted an opinion and a guess, I would just ask a complete stranger on the bus and I'd get a response for free! We are paying good money and I know that some readers do readings to pay the bills, but of all things to make stories about, lying about love is the worst!

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