I have read with Cookie for a few years and she’s never seen me and my POI together in a committed relationship. She’s seen him with other people and in other relationships but never with me. The thing is, she has consistently insisted that he wants to be with me and that I am the one he wants but the situation we are in prevents him from acting on his feelings. The situation she described is correct and I believe it is the reason our relationship cannot progress. However, she insisted she is “200%” sure of his feelings for me and I cannot confirm any of it. It feels like I am being told I can have a cookie that is not within my reach. Has anyone else experience this with her where she says the feelings are there, describes his thoughts during meditation, but not experience any action as a result? She’s been so right in other things but I wonder if she’s wrong reading his thoughts?
Cookie can be really frustrating in these types of reads - and very confusing.
You can feel as if you are going around in circles.
Whilst she has been very accurate on how events play out for me (not always, but in many things) - I find her reading style is to "see" things and "see" feelings, rather than *feel* them.
With a previous PoI she saw us meeting, holding hands, and taking photos together. It was someone I was absolutely in love with - and I got my hopes up.
However, the holding hands was to help me up a slope when we went for a walk, the taking pictures, was only as friends - the outcome wasn't the one I wanted at the time (although I can see now he was not the right person for me... but what a painful ride that was.)
To give her due - she never saw us in a committed relationship.
I'm reading with her on someone else now, and it's just as confusing and painful.
My instincts scream the opposite to what she tells me - and I get utterly confused.
She tells me things that are completely opposite to how I feel.
So I now use her along side other readers - an empath I trust and connect with - someone who connects very well with the current situation - and Kisha. Both help fill in the gaps that Cookie can't - and help me make sense of what is happening.
I have to brace myself when I read with Cookie - she is a hard reader - I rarely hear anything positive - when I do - it's never really the outcome I imagine when she is telling me.
To give some comfort - she has been wrong on a number of things - so don't feel what she says is locked in stone.
When she was reading on a relationship with my last PoI - she said at the beginning of the year, that he would be with the girl he was with until the end of the year - they would "still be talking" - but he broke with her mid year and they didnt' talk at all after it.
She told me she saw me in a bubble bath with my former PoI - over and over - that never happened.
There are numerous other little things I could mention where she has misfired. She's about 85% right - so I keep reading with her. But I'm learning not to let it blur my own instincts of my own path.
What I know about Men now, is that they don't always act on their feelings. They use logic - they can feel in love with you - but if they can't see a path ahead or how it could work, they won't take action - that could be the issue here.
However, I would reach inside and start to ask your angels (specifically your angels) for help - to guide you - and see if you can feel what actions you need to take from here to help get through this.
Not sure if any of that helps.... X
