@canary... I just spent 10 minutes typing out my post back to you, my bloody phone dies in the middle of it and blam, bye bye 10 minutes. So, ok, these are my thoughts and my suggestions:
Thoughts:
-maybe she didn't connect with you, I don't think all people can connect properly with every reader;
-my understanding is that she has a regular job on top of readings, possibly she was burnt out and her info was all scrambled;
-she sounds like she wasn't focused AT ALL;
-clearly, she just got a bunch of info and threw it out at you;
-I've heard, by speaking to others, and with my own experience, that sometimes the situation doesn't pan out the way she sees it, ie:she sees a situation being romantic in nature and it sure as hell wasn't!
-this isn't the first I've heard of things not panning out as predicted, but those were to do with romantic situations;
-reality check here boys and girls, we're talking about another human being getting visions about someone else's life, snapshots of situations for current, past and future... Think about that for one second and my brain goes, um ya, pretty spectacular gift, but there's not a hope in hell she can be right for everyone, see things to the exact pinpoint of what actually happens, there's no way. She's not God or an angel or a being from another planet, she's still a human being who will make mistakes;
My suggestions:
-read with her again and read with her in the morning;
-ask you question in a very general way so the info can flow properly and she can just tell you what she sees; ie: can you tell me what's up and coming between this guy and myself, let her spit out what she sees, then ask what's the best course of action on how to proceed; or with work: what do you see coming up for me in the next few months regarding work?
If you ask more general questions, in my experience, I have found her to be very *flowy* with what she sees coming. Where I get freaked right out is when she tells me things like, I see him always there in your future for a really long time, or he'll be there in your life forever. I asked that question about a really good friend of mine and she told me he's always there in your life, I see him there forever. My question back to her was forever? And she said yes to that. Which I find very unrealistic, but hell, we've been friends for 12 years so far so who knows?
The one thing I hold to my heart, is to carry on living my life as though I don't get a reading, she's not 100% so it may not pan out as predicted and I used to not believe that free will played a part as I believed that you have a destiny, but after reading with Julie and cookie, I realized that my actions and my words effect a lot when it comes to relationships. And when it comes right down to it, you can easily pick a fight, say something mean and then That person won't want to be in your life anymore. So with that in mind I do believe that you can change how things roll, not the final outcome, but certainly how smoothly you want things to go in your life on the day to day stuff...