I never read with her, but honestly just reading this thread is a no no no. Doesn't feel respectful and friendly at all to deal with your clients the way she does.
My 2 cents
She's respectful and friendly. Today just wasn't her best day. I've got a lot of info from her in the past.
If I hadn't waited 2 months, I wouldn't be so bummed. I would just try again in a week and it would be fine.