We have ALL had this problem, with men and readings. You will just have to weed through the readers and figure out which one you connect with the best - it is different for all of us. Same with the men in your life. As the saying goes "when they show you who they are, believe them the first time". As hard as it is, walking away will be the healthiest choice you can make. If it is meant to be, he will win you back, if not, then letting go was the correct choice.