I used to think like you too...I believed in fate and that our lives are out of our control...but I just have way too many "coincidences" to write them off. I can see clearly now how my reality matches my energy, and when a shift in energy occurs my reality changes. I can even change people's behaviors by changing my energy (when in reality I've just shifted into a parallel reality where I"m aligned with a different version of them)..and I mean DRASTIC changes, overnight, simply by doing some emotional work. I think its easier to believe that things are predestined rather than taking responsibility.
I think this is also why 90% of readings don't happen...people's energy change too much and also, an accurate reading is a manifestation too...maybe we just aren't a match to manifesting an accurate reading sometimes for whatever reason.
Preach ... ^^^^. LOVE THIS and 100% agree!
And what me and star1 are saying is your reality doesn’t mean others have the same, i for one can be completely negative and have wonderful abundance come my way as my life has proven. Same with star 1 so now we are 2 people who aren’t affected by attitude and 2 who are... so obviously the Loa is not a law at all. Many people never escape what I was in. It was pure luck I didn’t die. Not law of attraction. I believe everything is written, I believe in coincidence being something more, I don’t believe in law of attraction. My sister was newly divorced from a man who betrayed her while pregnant she lost the baby and left her beautiful home on the east coasts, one month later as she was in the pits of despair and considered reconciling with hubs I dragged her to a party and she met her now husband. NEW LOVE is not affected by hanging on too tight to another, it’s affected only by timing. lol is not real, she ‘knew’ she’d be alone forever after that. No, it’s luck of the draw and already written.
That’s reality.
Yeah I completely agree. I do think that things are mapped out. Things happen for a reason. Some people have luck in lives and others don't. As for choosing your parents before you're born, I can't say 100% but I've read many cases online of it happening. Parents saying their children have said strange things to them about that. Also, some people believe that we choose our lessons before life. One person I spoke to once thinks that when we die, spirits come together and say "well Star1, you had a good life last time. You had the money, you had success in your relationships and had a successful life. Now in this next life, it's time for you to learn some lessons and your life may be tougher. It is upto you to go onto have another life where you must learn lessons or stay as a spirit essentially, but you will not evolve and progress onto higher levels of the spirit world". (Lots of people believe that there are different plains of the spirit world. The not so kind and selfish people ie are of course going to be pretty much at the bottom with the evil people. People who were kind and generous in this life go near the top, etc). Have you ever heard people say, "you're an old soul"? Perhaps you've evolved many times on this plain so that your soul is at the top of the levels.. I don't know what I believe in, I don't even know if we do have past life's for sure because as I was saying to a medium before, how will I get to meet my grandmother who's deceased who is always around me in spirit unless she's having 2 lives and I will see her spirit and meet her when I pass, but she's now another person somewhere in this world..
However, I certainly believe that things are destined and I don't need to answer about LOA, I've said many times what I think to it..