My POI and I work for the same company and have developed a very good friendship over the many years. He is very closed off with several levels of brick walls. But, through the years and as our friendship grew, I was able to chip at that wall and he let me in. Inevitably, we developed feelings for each other but never acted upon them because we were both involved with other people. Then one day, I discovered he was not faithful and I confronted him. Because of our closeness, he confided in me. I was crushed but because we were friends, I stuck a steel rod up my spine and was there for him. Then he admitted feelings for me. That’s when the nightmare began. I thought we had meant something to each other and for him to confess would mean that we could at least explore the possibilities of where that connection would take us. Long story short, he wrote me a blank check he couldn’t cash. He won’t let go but he refuses to do anything. I was so confused as to what was going on so I started calling psychics to help me understand. I mean, if he really wanted to, he would put more effort into this. Some readings have been helpful but, to be honest, the expectation of predictions or admitted feelings have made me more anxious and frustrated. So far, very few predictions actually came through (although a lot of my predictions are way into 2019 so...). Anyways, I decided I had had enough so I told him I had to cut ties, which is difficult to do completely when you work together and still have strong feelings for one another. He is mad but I can’t bring myself to forgive him. We are longer speaking, which makes me a little sad at times. Now end of year parties and social functions are becoming rather awkward. So, now that we are no longer speaking, I am calling empaths more and more just to see how he’s feeling. And also, an occasional psychic for predictions to see if things will work out.
So, if anyone out there have been in a relationship where they’ve known their POI for a long time prior to admitted feelings and then getting ghosted and pushed away by same POI, would you mind sharing your experience with me? Also, have you asked any readers as to why POI won’t let go but won’t make an effort? What do they predict will happen in your relationship?
