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LuckyInLove:
BTW guys; The call I did make two weeks ago was suggested by my local psychic. When i called her back to let her he did not respond she did tell me that he wanted to but he doesnt know what to say to me & that again this negative ppl around him influence him much.

She is using the meditation power to see thru to him. There are no spells involved but I beleive she is using the same "how to get the ex back package" method that some member had previously mentioned. I know for sure she is honest. I don't beleive she is doing any spell work. She has amazed me with so much of what she picked up thru her meditation powers. She also told me how his mother is sick & how she has been hoping things work out between us. I know for a fact his mother is ill & she genuinely loved me when I was with him.

Now that she is suggesting I wish him for his bday & send him a text. I am confused as hell about what to do. And the funny thing my birthday is exactly a week after him. LOL. I know if I don't wish him, he wont because he is a  VERY STUBBORN Scorpio Male!!!!

SM relationships are never easy eh! LOL

misty:
Oh wow unluckyinlove i went through the same situation with the birthdays

Me and my ex are both Taureans. My birthday was 2 weeks before his and he DID NOT text me or call me to wish me happy bday, I was okay for the first entire 24 hours + the day after. The next night (after midnight) I snapped and text him asking how come he didnt text me. He said he thought about texting me but then he forgot, needless to say I still regret doing what i did.

So then 2 weeks later when it was his bday, I didn't bother contacting him. Weeks later when he started calling me on his own, he kept asking how come I didn't text or call him on his bday. till now He still goes like "Oh cmon you owe me one I was expecting you to call"

positivethoughts2:
Unlucky - This is tough and really none of us know the story so I strongly believe you need to follow your gut and not listen to any of us because we are all in here for one reason or another............ But since you asked I would agree with the others about holding off. Especially since you just called him......

I know how much this hurts.........

hang in there
PT

LuckyInLove:
Yeah PT it is extremely hard. I know that if I do wish him he will respond with a thank you for sure but then I feel he will be only doing that out of politeness for wishing him not because he wants to. One way I feel if I do text him, he might realize I do still care for him & that might start some communication but on the other hand I feel it will show my desperation to continuously try to find a way to communicate with him even after what he did two weeks ago.

Its not easy for sure. I am extremely grateful to the psychic that has been helping me & dont want let her down by not following her guidance but I definitely dont want to look desperate for him. I love him but I have my dignity to hold too.

Maybe I will call my psychic & tell her how I feel at this point and she what she has to say as well. Couple more hours before that timeline passes!

Thanks guys! Will keep you'll posted!

loveblooms:
Hi Unlucky, I hope you will be lucky in Love. Change your name to you will be lucky in love (if you don't mind). Affirmation !!!
I also agree with synergy, PT and misty.
Who was the first person to call this relationship a quit.
My opinion (with disclaimers). If it was him then you have done your job of texting him to let him know that its not over from your side. According to psychics you should send him wishes and according to dating experts: make him miss you so that one day he will be come running in to you.
Yes true, that he needs to come out of his negativity, stubborn freak and realize that he is missing important thing from his life. Good thing about your relationship is that his mother is in your favor. For sure she would be conveying your feelings to him, so keep communicating with her if not him. This would be an indirect way. Wise communication is a key to success for any relationship, this I have learned lately, thankfully I did.
Rest follow your hunch to reach a decision. I hope you guides will help you. Good Luck !

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