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Another Newbie..........
LuckyInLove:
Jordie you make so much sense but still I am sure what my heart says cuz I am so darn confused.
I am in a dilemma right now. I have had two really good readings where both readers have picked up the feelings of my ex to the T.
One of the advisors on Keen read the real reason for our breakup perfectly well. She picked up everything really well. When I asked her if the letter is a good idea to write to him she said NO pls dont do it because he is going thru alot of thinking right now. Leave it and he will come around sometime in the New year which most of the advisors that I have felt good connection have said the same.
The other advisor I read with on PPN just this morning described my SM personality to the T again. How he blew the issue out or proportion & how he reacts to things. She picked up his energy really really well. When I asked her if the letter is a good idea she said YES cuz that will open a line of communication otherwise she doesnt see much happening between us.
I am so confused cuz both the readers were darn right about him. Should I or should I not write the letter is the question I am battling with for a few days now. I have not heard from him & not sure if I will anytime soon. Most of the psychics I connected with have given me a timeline of Feb 2012 being much better. Raven, Mikki, Aries Intuition, Roxies Gift, DianaLC, Seha each of these have all said next year when I read with them. All these pyschics right from the beginning have predicted Feb 2012 the month. I read with Raven in Sep and she told me btwn 4-5months which would be Feb & I just read with her again a day ago again (she didnt remember me) and she predicted the same timeframe so I am a little hopeful.
Problem is should I wait it out or just write the letter & see what happens. That is what I am battling with right now. Believe me this is not easy at all. Maybe the holidays will make him realize how much we should be together. Wishful thinking!
LIL
sunandmoon:
--- Quote from: jordie on December 01, 2011, 11:22:15 PM ---just wanted to add something here. The reason I don't really take advice so well is because - what if they are wrong about everything? Are they truly psychic or just someone working a phone line. Do I really want to hand them control over my fate? So, that is why I decide in the end what I will do. And that is how it should be. If what they see is what truly will be, well it will happen because I made decisions on my own.
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This and your previous post go hand in hand with what I said in another thread - we have the answers within US. We don't need psychics to tell us what to do.
I know we all want answers. My biggest thing was wanting to know what made him stop talking to me when he previously couldn't live without me. But I never got that answer either. And I spent thousands trying to do so.
Synergy:
sunandmoon and jordie...
I agree with you both more than I can even express... especially with what's been going on in my life the past week!
I've been hoping and praying for my SM to become some he's not. He is a commitment phobic man. Yes, a lot of the readers have been accurate in their description of him, our situation, and his feelings, but that doesn't mean he is going to change. I can't keep waiting for timeframes to come and go. Also, do I really want someone that I have to change? No.
Ultimately, yes, I still love my SM. My heart still aches some days when he's a jerk or distant or when I just plain miss him, but something wonderful has happened. A new man who doesn't need to be changed, isn't afraid of commitment, and is interested in me is in the picture. It would be wonderful if things work out with this guy, BUT even if they don't, this has taught me something. There are GOOD men out there who are ready for what we want and need, ladies, and gentlemen the same is true for you guys. I have hope again... a different kind of hope. Not hope that my SM will come forward, but hope in men in general. Hope that I will one day be loved back that way I am supposed to be loved.
While all this has happened, my SM has obviously missed my attention. On Wednesday, he left a brownie on my desk. Instead of saying something romantic, or actually apologizing for all he has done, he said, "This is because you're cool and you deserve delicious treats." Huh? My new guy has revealed more to me in 2 weeks, then my SM has in an entire year!!!
I am a Libra woman who needs to be loved through actions. Show me you love me. The fact that I've had to call psychics to know that my SM loves me isn't fulfilling in any way.
Something interesting happened too... I called some of my favorite readers to ask about my new guy. No joke, you guys... One third of the readers told me that the new guy is the one for me, one third said that I need to tell the new guy that I'm not interested so that I can wait for my SM who is the man I'm going to be with, and the other third told me I wouldn't be with either of them. This is where I realized that you are all right... the answer IS within ME!!! I know who's right for me. I know who's worth the risk. I know who will be there for me AND my children.
This all doesn't mean I'm going to stop calling psychics. I do believe they have a gift, but it does mean that I'm going to start following my intuition. I have an amazing opportunity and I'm going to take it!!!
I really don't think it's a good idea to share names here, BUT I trust you guys and have to tell you that my new guy's name is CHANCE! How can I not take a chance on someone named Chance?! It's like the universe is telling me something, and I can't ignore it for hope that my SM will change.
This isn't meant to discourage anyone either. I hope will all my heart that you guys get to reunite with your loves. I just can't wait anymore.
4everhopeful:
Synergy, I say go after that new man and keep him. I think his name being Chance is a sign also. Your Chance at a whole new life with someone that will appreciate you and love you like you deserve to be loved. I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope this works out for you. Congratulations, I am so happy for you.
positivethoughts2:
4everhopeful - love your post.
Synergy - Go for it. You never know. Maybe he is just a distraction, maybe it's more. You'll never know for sure unless you try.
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