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scorpiogirl:
Hi Unlucky ( I agree with Loveblooms, you really should choose a fabulous positive name :-) )

I used to call psychics too (ALOT) and still do every now and then, but I read this board to kind of remind me where I used to be and how far I've come. I sometimes may sound like I'm "psychic-bashing" but I'm really not.
Anyway, in my first post on here I mentioned a website that I read instead of calling psychics like I used to and when I read your post I recalled an article that I saw on there a few weeks ago, dealing exactly with the birthday wishes issue. (BTW I'm a scorpio too :) )

It may help you figure out what you want to do. http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/dealing-with-happy-birthdays-and-big-occasions-to-send-a-card-or-text-or-not-to-send/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+BaggageReclaim-TheGuideToSingleLivingDatingRelationshipsAndOfCourseManTaming+%28Baggage+Reclaim+Relationship+Blog%29&utm_content=FaceBook

By the way, it's over 2 years since we've been "off"  and I still struggle with the birthday issue. I ignored his birthday and every other holiday until I felt it was "safe". I wished him in August this year, and that's when I realised I need to keep ignoring the special days. I'm not waiting for him at all but I'm not over what he did to me and this just brings up emotional issues. So now as my sister says, I put him in a bubble and blow him away.

I know the firsts after the break up is torture so I wish you a clear head and a peaceful soul :-)

Libra:
Thanks for that website scorpiogirl and welcome. My 2 exes were scorpios wow extreme energy!

loveblooms:
Good blog scorpio

And Libra how about Libra ?

Starrlite:
I agree with scorpiogirl. Its not just birthdays its all the holidays.  They bring back memories of happier times.  I expect the holidays coming up soon to be especially rough because at least for me it was three years of sharing them with him.  But you have to pretend like its impossible to make contact.  I feel that if he wronged you he should contact you.  If he misses you as much as you do he will.  I'm not psychic bashing I still call (a lot) but I'm starting to take them with a grain of salt.  Their advice is not always solid.  Follow your heart more than anything at the end of the day no one can know you SM more than you do.  Make contact if you feel its right.  I'm posting very late, if you don't mind me asking, did you wish him a happy birthday?

glasshalffull:

--- Quote from: LuckyInLove on October 26, 2011, 08:01:42 PM ---Hey guys
Thanks for the welcome!

@Misty: We were seeing each other for 1.5years. A beautiful relationship we had till things fell apart.

The local psychic I have been seeing has been telling me he is really missing me but there are negative forces (energy)around him that is preventing him from making that call. Him & I were in a long distance relationship but from the time we met & have known each other there were sparks flying. Both of us are Scorpios. Extreme passion & deep feelings for each other.
The negative energy around him is in the form of two people (a couple) that are very close to him. This couple has been friends with my SM for a long time. The woman is the one that I have been exceptionally wary off from the start. From the time I have met her she gave me this eerie feeling of seeing right thru to me. She would comment on everything I did or wear right down to eyeing my (nicely manicured lol) hand nails & making a comment on them.
The local psychic picked up on this without me telling her anything. She knew about my back problem from an accident I had a while ago, and that I have been (not actively) looking for a job. She did tell me that once I actively start looking & presenting my resume I will find a job where I want.
She described my SM &  mine relationship to the T. The times we spent together, what we said & waht we  wanted from this relationship. She knows how him & I talked about starting a business  together & working with each other. She has told me alot of things that did happen while we were together.

When I called her yesterday she did give me  a specific time I should send him birthday wishes but I am just really upset with him for not calling me back the last time I tried to.
I know we are not together but it was not what we wanted. Because of an issue & I feel this negative force things fell apart btwn us. I did not want this at all & I want to be with him.

Zhevah from PPN is the only one that has told me that him & I will not be together & that there is another man coming in my life. Rest all have said that my SM & I will be together.

The real ones I feel were Seha from CP. Raven from PA, ISabella from PA & Rain from Pyschic power. Gosh Rain from Psychic power said the same things that my local psychic said of the people around him & how we broke up. She actually freaked me out. She said that I have a letter that I have written which I have not sent yet. She says if I do that will lead to opening the doors to communicate again. She picked up on the same two people that my local psychic told me about.

I also feel I should not contact him but I am scared of driving him further away but like Synergy said you cant lose something that you dont have.

Why is this so hard? :-[

--- End quote ---
Hi. It seems that your local psychic was accurate. Though there are a few real psychics out there if you compulsively call (like many of us did) it may bankrupt you. Please be careful.

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