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LuckyInLove:
Hello Everyone:
I am a new member pretty much in the same boat as most of you here. My SM and I have broken up since Aug & ever since I have not heard from him. Like all of you here, I have been on a psychic rampage trying to find answers & hoping for some miracles.

I have called numerous pyshics from CP, Keen, Pyschic Power, Psychic Power Network (PPN) & Psychic Access. All except for one has told me the same thing - My SM & I will be together. As time goes by, I am starting to wonder if that will ever happen.

I will write a full review of my experiences in just a little while but for now I do need some advice from you guys please.

Its his birthday today. Should I send him birthday wishes or not say anything. I did try to call him a couple of weeks back but he did not answer the phone nor did he try returning my calls. He may have been busy at that time I called but him not calling back surprised me a bit. I was hoping he would at least call back. We did not fight when we broke up but did it amicably over the phone still his not returning my call did surprise me.

Well, what should I do? Should I or should I not send him birthday wishes? I am so confused.  Please suggest dear fellow members.

I will share my experiences soon regarding the psychics I have called so far. I should mention here, I have seen a local psychic here that has completely wowed me. According to her I should wish him but I am still confused. Help me pls people.

Thank you so much.
UnluckyInLove

misty:
hey unluckyinlove, welcome to the forum! im new here myself.

Since you clearly called him a couple of times and he didn't answer nor call back.. and its been weeks I don't think you should call to wish him at all. You guys made a mutual decision to break up. He shouldn't have been (ignoring is not the word) cold like that. If you don't call back one day or another he will definitely wonder why you didn't call today. This is just my opinion of course, others might think differently

how long were you guys together for if you don;t mind me asking?

Inactive- PHN:
I agree you should not contact him give him time to miss you. Each situation is different.

Synergy:
It's so easy to give advice when we're not the ones in a particular situation.  I have made several errors in the past few weeks when it comes to my SM.  I have contacted him when I told myself that I shouldn't and wouldn't.  I think I made a big mistake by doing that.  I agree with everyone else and think you should not contact him for his birthday.  He will definitely wonder why you didn't do so, and this might drive him to contact you.  Someone told me, "You can't lose something you don't have."  In this case, you are no longer together, so you shouldn't think that you are driving him further away by not acknowledging his birthday.

I really hope he does call you, so that you guys can repair your relationship.  Please keep us posted... and welcome to the forum!! 

LuckyInLove:
Hey guys
Thanks for the welcome!

@Misty: We were seeing each other for 1.5years. A beautiful relationship we had till things fell apart.

The local psychic I have been seeing has been telling me he is really missing me but there are negative forces (energy)around him that is preventing him from making that call. Him & I were in a long distance relationship but from the time we met & have known each other there were sparks flying. Both of us are Scorpios. Extreme passion & deep feelings for each other.
The negative energy around him is in the form of two people (a couple) that are very close to him. This couple has been friends with my SM for a long time. The woman is the one that I have been exceptionally wary off from the start. From the time I have met her she gave me this eerie feeling of seeing right thru to me. She would comment on everything I did or wear right down to eyeing my (nicely manicured lol) hand nails & making a comment on them.
The local psychic picked up on this without me telling her anything. She knew about my back problem from an accident I had a while ago, and that I have been (not actively) looking for a job. She did tell me that once I actively start looking & presenting my resume I will find a job where I want.
She described my SM &  mine relationship to the T. The times we spent together, what we said & waht we  wanted from this relationship. She knows how him & I talked about starting a business  together & working with each other. She has told me alot of things that did happen while we were together.

When I called her yesterday she did give me  a specific time I should send him birthday wishes but I am just really upset with him for not calling me back the last time I tried to.
I know we are not together but it was not what we wanted. Because of an issue & I feel this negative force things fell apart btwn us. I did not want this at all & I want to be with him.

Zhevah from PPN is the only one that has told me that him & I will not be together & that there is another man coming in my life. Rest all have said that my SM & I will be together.

The real ones I feel were Seha from CP. Raven from PA, ISabella from PA & Rain from Pyschic power. Gosh Rain from Psychic power said the same things that my local psychic said of the people around him & how we broke up. She actually freaked me out. She said that I have a letter that I have written which I have not sent yet. She says if I do that will lead to opening the doors to communicate again. She picked up on the same two people that my local psychic told me about.

I also feel I should not contact him but I am scared of driving him further away but like Synergy said you cant lose something that you dont have.

Why is this so hard? :-[

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