Lol. As an Aqua female, I can say that the male and female are different in certain ways. I would really really suggest getting a compatibility reading done. You will need both of your full dates of birth, time of day of birth for both of you, and location of birth for both of you.
I would be more than happy to cast a free one for you with my software. There is A LOT more to our personalities than the sun sign. This is why some sun signs don't act like the typical sun sign. There's an entire chart that both of you have. The compatibility chart will help you understand the dynamics of your relationship and give suggestions as to how to deal with one another. If you want that done, send me a private message with the required information.
You can also go online and get one for free as well. Up to you. Good luck dear!