I'm actually a bit confused with Karen, now. I had the phone call reading with her 2 weeks ago and she told me that this man wouldn't change, she looks at people's energies lots and can see if someone is immature or if their behaviour basically goes deeper than that. She told me he would always self victimize and never be consistent.. That we would get to reconcile, but I'm best off without him. I then had an email reading with her today and she told me that my ex IS immature and needs to grow up in order for things to work out, and it's not to do with him not being immature because immature guys don't care about how they treat people and don't think about what they're doing whereas this guy does, but he's tired to make the efforts and not ready because he is immature etc. So either he IS immature, or it's who he is and he won't change, and it's NOT about immaturity.. She gave me completely different answers there, which disappointed me..