I pose a question and opinion. Many people say they receive "negative" readings from certain readers. Meaning, readings that they are not hearing what they want to hear, I assume. Then we have the majority of readers that give "positive" readings. Meaning, readings that they are telling us everything we want to hear and keeping the hope alive, I assume.
Most common example: "Does my ex have feelings for me? Will my ex return?" Unfortunately, that's what many of us are calling about. Not all of us, just many of us. There are certain readers that are known to give the many answers they do not wish to hear, which is then viewed as negative. Such as, you're ex has some feelings but you're not going to reconcile. Or, you're ex doesn't have feelings anymore. Or, you're ex is involved with someone else. Or, you will reconcile but it will only be temporary and then it ends again. My question is, is this REALLY negative? Or, is it just cold hard truth and ends up being a positive in the end? For me, truth is always positive, even if it hurts. I don't view any truths as negative. I'm curious as to what others feel about this.
Then there are the beloved typical readers that give "positive" readings telling us what we want to hear and sometimes they tell us these things for soooooooooooo long, that before we know it, we've been holding on to this hope for years. But, after some years, said ex didn't return, didn't contact, nothing happened. Or, contact happened but no reconciliation. Or, reconciliation occurred but it then ended again yet said psychics basically told you it would be happily ever after. Is that REALLY a positive reading? Is bullshit and lies positive? For me, I think those kind of fairytale readings have the most negative impact on people because it prevents them from letting go and just living their lives after some years of holding on. I read so often where people are holding on for 5 and 10 years without even an ounce of contact all because said fairytale readers kept them holding on and just kept pushing out timelines. That is really heart breaking to witness.
The paradox here is........maybe the "negative" readings are really the positive ones and the "positive" readings are negative? Lol. To be clear, I am NOT saying that every single positive reading is bullshit. I'm also NOT saying that every single "negative" reading is truth and positive. I'm just focusing on readers that are known to give the majority positive without many things coming to pass verses those readers that are known to give "negative" readings and the majority of those do come to pass.
I've seen some people say that the "negative" readers are just as full of shit because it's easier to just give negative readings and that way they can end up being right the majority of the time. I disagree with this viewpoint. Could it be that the people we are dealing with have some issues that are difficult for us to handle and that's why it's not great news? Could it be that these same people are not going to make any major changes anytime soon within themselves hence the "negative" reads on them? Why blame the reader for this who is probably just trying to give some truths which will be better for us in the end anyway?
Thoughts? Opinions?
