I myself haven't gotten the impressing that the reader feels more unsettled or even struggled. In fact I have felt the complete opposite like how positive they are of their reading. The only ones that I want to exclude from that are the fairy tale readers. I had a few of those and they are easy to spot. Usually a lot of sugar coating around my POI and very confident that my POI will reach out within a short amount of time. I don't believe my POI will reach out by the end of the year.
It's good that you've got your head screwed on.. I wasn't when I was new to readings, love blind
I was only that because I was really expecting them all to say my POI wasn't coming back. It wasn't until after the first one that I talked to that made me wonder how true any of it could be. In fact I still wished I would of had more say my POI wasn't coming back than all the positive ones. I think that is one thing that would help me truly move on but with all of them saying my POI coming back makes it tough. Even my therapist has said my POI will reach out. Though neither of us know when. That was something I knew long before I talked to any psychics. With the psychics it kind of helped affirm the timeframe of possibly when that could happen. Which is approximately when I have a gut feeling of it as well just because I know my POI well.
Wow, your therapist says stuff like that?! That's crazy, over here that'd be frowned upon and very anti Politically Correct, lol. We are a barmy nation, now But I feel the same, I never say it because you have to be careful of what you wish for - but sometimes it's easier if they told me he didn't care and wasn't coming back, ha ha. I'm pretty sure she'll be thinking of you, especially where it's Thanksgiving coming up and Xmas..
Yeah they did tell me that because we were trying to figure out my POI's actions. Very hot and cold. Will say one thing and do the opposite. Pretty sure being manipulated my friends that cause relationship drama. So really the actions of my POI generates a type of character profile and that would indicate a possible contact. So my therapist and I were trying to figure out what I would do at that point. To help me either move on or figure out what I needed to do in order to keep some of my own individuality and not be manipulated by my POI.
The only thing with Thanksgiving that she will be thinking of me on is the fact that I met her extended family last year. She told me that was a big deal for her to invite me. For christmas I really only see the gift I gave her as a big reminder. It was the meaning behind it and I am sure she still has it. But the big one is New Years Eve. That was the night we first met. I was her kiss that night and we immediately started dating. It was almost a fairy tale story. Which is what she wants in life. So I see that playing the biggest role in her contacting me and ending it with this guy. Especially considering she met this guy from a dating app. Not very fairy tale like of a story.
I know exactly how you feel, my ex was hot and cold with me, too. Promised me the world, the guy who rushes in at 100mph and rushes out at 100mph lol. It's really frustrating, she more than likely has commitment issues of some kind.
She's definitely gonna be thinking of you at this time of year then, with those markers coming up pretty soon. Hopefully this prompts her to make some form of contact, and I'm sure she will. You never know what's going on behind closed doors I guess, and if she
really is happy with this new guy.