I want to add to this. I think that there is also outside factors like family and friends that can play a role. They could be thinking about you and asking them for advice. They might all be saying don't go back to that person because of x number of reasons. But to your POI their heart and mind are not agreeing with each other. They hear what their friends and family say but their heart is telling them different. So they get conflicted and scared which makes them not want to reach out.
For my current POI I think that is playing a big role. I talked to a few more psychics and I got all the same thing that she would be coming back and that she is thinking of me. That she is actually thinking of me quite often. Not sure how much I believe any of it. As my own gut can say yes that is true but I also think it is over. The only thing giving me the most conflict is my own gut feeling is saying yes she will reach out. Right now it is very deep in the gut but enough there to be noticed.
One more thing I like to mention is that I talked to Effie. She gave a timeline that was drastically different than the rest. Effie said that we wouldn't reconcile until around Sept 2019 compared to the rest of basically early spring. She also mentioned my POI will end her current relationship around Feb/March and then see one more guy before she contacts me. But the second guy will be really short like a month long. She also mentioned that we were not life partners but more of a learning lesson. No one else said that either.
So is she right or the others? Well my own gut feeling is saying that she will reach out. As to if we will reconcile. A lot of that depends on my ex. I can see her working on it but at the same time it is a big mountain to climb and I could see her just giving up and running away. That is something that she needs to learn is to stick through the hardships. I think that as time goes on I will no longer want to be with my ex. I feel like I am pretty much there now but I won't know what I will do when she contacts me until then. I could do a complete 180 and take her back. So I have to ask all of you. Do you think what the psychic tells you is more of a way to just comfort your heart and mind no matter the outcome?
It's weird, cos my gut feeling is similar to yours.
I don't think that I feel strongly my gut's saying I completely won't hear from this man again online, but I strongly don't believe it logically, if that makes sense? But I know physically I won't ever see him again, in person - For certain. Also, I agree about third parties. His family really liked me, but unless he's bitched about me to them and his friends, making out I'm a bad person and making up stuff about me and the relationship, then obviously they're going to advise him from what they've heard to keep away from me. It depends what he's been telling them (which ofc I'll never find out). But I was close to his parents, so they should know how much I loved him and the issue was never on my end.
And yes - we never
really know what we're going to really do once reality hits and the ex does contact us - some of us might actually change our mind on wanting them back, some of us might be beginning to move on and suddenly decide to give things a chance with the ex again or at least be friends.