Hi Kristina,
So sorry to hear what happened. I don’t know your situation and I don’t know how long you’ve dated, how serious it was etc., however what I do know is that when you met your poi and started dating in the beginning...whatever relationship you had then, is how compatible you guys really are. Whether you’re on good terms or not right now. That’s how you determine it. So, if it was strong, amazing, felt right... then the best thing you can do right now is listen to what he is saying and let him go. Save your money. Do A LOT of self care and self love and try to find it in yourself to say: I’m fine even if he doesn’t come back. Yes, most of the time they do return sometimes 5 weeks 5 months 5 years lol not that I’m saying he’s coming back in 5 yrs. It took me two years to be able to sincerely say: id love it if he did but I’m totally ok if there’s someone better for me. I feel like it makes it harder when they’re not assholes lmao. My ex told me I wanna take this career path and Just be alone. He said: We just want different things....
a few months later when he was moving for his job to another state he goes: my quality of life has significantly dropped since you moved out. If our paths cross again, I wouldn’t be opposed to trying. And then he kissed me goodbye
But so anyways, I watched a lot of self help stuff on YouTube and read many books. Called a lottt of psychics. (Ugh) and now I’m finally like, im actually happy with just being me. Im open to a serious relationship with another guy. It feels so good to let go of resistance.
I know this is still fresh for you but just focus on yourself, if you guys had a strong connection, he’s going to feel this shift and start wondering. Hope this helps. If you have any questions or wanna vent more you can PM me