Did you give her alot of backstory to start?
Yes, I am interested to know how much information you gave her. I am also interested if anyone on here has had their predictions flip flop. Mine haven't (just to be clear), and she has been really good for me. Not all good news for sure, but amazingly accurate and consistent. I would really like to know if she is as good as she appears, with good or bad.
Regardless, I am so, so sorry Lunalove. I know the challenges of doing it alone. Make sure he takes care of his responsibilities, at least financially, and keep your head up. You got this. The best revenge is success. XO
No, I was careful not to give her any extra information. So I started the chat off with “What do you see coming for me and xxx”; and then she told me that she doesn't see anything coming up for us and instead immediately picked up the other woman instead. She only asked me if I knew who this woman was, which I simply answered "yes". She also mentioned that she felt that the other woman was his current relationship and asked me to verify if she was correct - which I simply answered "yes" again. Then the rest of the conversation is just me asking questions and her bluntly answering my questions. It got to the point where I was upset enough to ask her to tell me the raw truth if he ever loved me, and that's why she answered the way she did. But to be honest, she was already blunt enough - but I just wanted to make sure she wasn't holding back so that whatever she dishes out at me really sunk in.
And thanks Fidget, I'm really trying. It's just kind of difficult to do anything else right now when I have to care for my little one for several months alone. Fortunately, he's not a complete monster and is still providing for me financially.
Luna love, I am so so sorry you are going through this. I’m glad you found a psychic who will just give it to you straight so you don’t waste time waiting for this guy. And who knows, maybe you move on and he does end up coming back, but you may not want him back by that time anyway. Sometimes the brutal honesty is exactly what we need, so I’m glad you asked for the raw truth.
Thanks Shooting Star, I really do want to move on so not to waste any more time on someone that's never going to be committed to me. Funny thing is, like what you said, Cookie does see him coming back, but by that time I've already moved on.
I'm so sorry to hear this too Luna. I agree that sometimes we just know deep down it won't work, and we look for confirmations from psychics to see if our intuition is right.
Thanks sawthelight, I guess sometimes our hearts just won't listen to what our brain's telling it what to do. That's why it's best to have our dish served cold </3
I am so sorry you had to experience this.
Yona, Cookie and Mattie also gave me similar predictions with hope but their predictions were further out for me. Kisha and Kira both told me my POI doesn’t have it in him to step up. So far, it looks like Kisha and Kira may be right for the immediate future of him not stepping up. But, my situation is in transition. It may take a while for things settle but there is hope and it will be my choice. I hope that, Yona’s, Cookie’s and Mattie’s predictions means that you also get to choose whether you let him back in to your life and at what capacity. Best wishes to you!
Thanks Penelope, you may be right, actually. Yona and Mattie both told me that he'd come back, but not immediately - but far later in the future. By that time, I COULD take him back, but I'd be more cautious and skeptical as the opportunity presents itself. Cookie saw the same thing, however, she saw the bigger picture that when he comes back, I would have chosen to move on from him instead. Kisha made it clear that she just doesn't see us together in the NEAR future. I'm not quite sure how far Kira and Leanne see into the future... but they both were like, nope not happening - please move on to save yourself the pain.
So maybe there is hope for your situation and there will be an opportunity later in the future for you to choose. Hopefully, by that time, you'll get what you want. As for me, I don't know if I could wait that long.. I'm way too impatient for that... Plus if I do take him back, I don't think I could ever trust him like I did before
I'm so sorry Luna Love! I just want to say that some psychics can read shorter terms than others. Yona reads very far out, so perhaps as years ahead you will hear from him and he will clean up his act, but take what your Spirit guides need you to hear right now to heart, that's no good situation to be in, if you wouldn't let your child do it, don't let yourself. Everything may unfold later, don't put anyone to the side or on hold for a pos like him. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks kindle! Yona did tell me that when he does come back it could be over a year later (maybe into 2020); while Cookie saw him coming back later in 2020-2021. But regardless, I'm probably going to start dating again to find someone that could replace that father figure in my child's life. Of course, I still love him but waiting for him for that long is such a huge risk for my mentality. So it's best that I try to move on and swallow what Kira told me for now.
When I read your post here, it broke my heart. I'm really so sorry that you got involved with someone like that. I think that some psychics see way further out than others. I've never tried Yona, Cookie, or Mattie but from what I've read, these particular readers tend to see way far out, like years down the line. I have not tried Leanne, but Kisha is my number 1 go to and Kira I just read with once recently last week. I feel like Kisha and Kira don't see past 3 to 6 months out. It may be that this guy comes back around years down the line. But, I'm going to say, I don't think you'll want him back by then. You really do deserve better.
I understand that when we get left for someone, it really can be a huge knock to the self esteem, especially when you really have invested your time, energy, and emotions into a person. I know that pain and it can really destroy you on every single level. But just know, that the other woman isn't "better" than you in any way. It's just that sometimes God/Universe whatever you wanna call it, removes people from our lives to make room for something better. It's hard to see while in the pain and it's moving forward is definitely a process. You have to ask yourself what kind of a person would leave you during one of your most vulnerable times when you would need them the most? A self serving person. That's what kind. I don't think he'll be any better to the other female than he was to you. He may have this kind of pattern and usually when someone cheats on you, they most likely have a history of being disloyal to others and will continue to be disloyal in the future. You may not see it now, but I think he did you a HUGE favor by making himself someone else's problem.
My reading with Kira wasn't great either. I was told that the ex did not love me as well and that he just loved having access to me. He's self serving, a lost soul, and refuses to learn and grow and that he doesn't know what love means or is. Those were her words and she's absolutely right. Kisha said the same thing, only Kisha said there's a level of care and his definition of what love is, but that he's self serving and it's all about him all the time. But you see, he has a pattern. He was the same way while married previously with his ex wife. He won't be any different with any future female.
I hope Kira saw a new guy coming in for you or maybe you didn't even ask about it but I hope there. I hope you are able to find the strength within you to get to know your own self worth, if you don't already know, and give yourself some love and cross paths with a man that will love you the right way. I wish you the best and I send you healing and love my dear.
Thanks Miss Philosopher, I really appreciate your kind and comforting words. I'll admit, he really did broke me. This was the person I was engaged to and was planning to grow a family with. Now I feel like childbirth without epidural was even more doable than the whole cheating itself. He traumatized me to the point where I feel a bit scared to get pregnant again because I'm afraid of getting cheated on again. It's true, like you said, that he's a self-serving person - and like Yona had said, he's a dick.
I guess Kira is great at not only telling us the harsh truth, but also giving us some sort of closure by aiding it with the harsh reality of how they actually think - as well as harsh details of why they did the things they did.
But I really do wish to move on, so I'm going to try. I did ask Kira if she sees me in another relationship, but she does not because she saw me still hung over him and that's why she advised me to use my free will to move on. However, Yona, Cookie, Kisha, and Leanne all saw that I have some potential POI's besides my ex in the future.
I'm also sorry about your ex, hopefully, we'll both get over these type of men and find someone else that will appreciate our worth <3
That was very sweet! It’s about lifting each other up! ❤️
I agree <3 This is the first forum that I'm active on and I didn't expect this type of support after sharing my experience.
It's very uplifting
Thank you everyone <3