THE END

[bstalling]

I will say Yona was probably seeing someone else and mistaking him for the current POI. Its probably something that will happen years later.

[Sparkle002]

I will say Yona was probably seeing someone else and mistaking him for the current POI. Its probably something that will happen years later.

I agree that it could be someone else, BUT nah. I think she is just wrong in this instance (first time for her to be completely wrong with me but its ok).

When I tell you the POI she describes is so specific to the guy in question (i.e. legal situation with BM, stress due to his business, etc) she’s seeing him, but its just wrong lol.

Also my cards move pretty fast....the legal situation with him is happening this year (I know I wont be dealing with him a year later dealing that child support situation sheesh)

well let me add this tidbit - this is a repeated prediction from January with more detail. There is a clip that states “he will tell you a lie or excuse, its not malicious, but DO NOT challenge him on it”. IN my most recent reading in April, the cards said the SAME THING - it said the lie was not malicious and it could actually be a surprise because - thats what ppl do when they are keeping a surprise (is what Yona said). But again the cards warned me to NOT challenge it until I see him face to face.

But I understand bstalling, if I saw someone post this I’d say the same thing, but there is no way this same type of scenario with the specificity would happen with someone else who is going through a legal situation with their BM, owns a business, etc etc - if it was a bit of a vague prediction I’d be open to it being someone else, but NAH lol

[josh34]

I felt it is my DUTY to update my current situation with regard to my story.

Currently I have 2 guys around me: my POI (the one referenced in the topic of this thread) and the “New Guy”

So just an update - while most of my positive predictions came true through March as predicted (things getting better) - the reality is, NOTHING has happened since the end of March.

While I’ve been in contact with my POI, I have not seen him in a month. There are some reasons why this has happened (1: he stated he wasn’t ready for a relationshi p, which is fine, but some things he said threw me off and, 2: I said something that threw him off for a while) - however I didnt think that those things would keep us in this “separation” as long as we have now.

Now, I will say - when readers say things will get “BETTER”, yeah it means exactly that (if it comes true). Better doesnt mean forever. It’s like a weather front that comes through and doesnt last. It just like being “happy”, no one is happy consistentl y, content maybe, but not necessarily happy. Basically this term is as vague as SOON and MAYBE.

Anyway, in the meantime I met the new guy. No real updates there yet, as he is still new.

Basically given the weather of emotions I’m dealing with now (not necessarily a Thunderstor m because I’m not torn up about it now, however I’d call it a Thunderstor m about 3 weeks ago when it was all fresh when we had our tiff), but now I’d say my emotions are more or less like Partly Sunny skies. So I’m good.

I say this to say here are what my readers have predicted - yet at this point, I am over the POI. Maybe the new guy will be the new POI who knows. But I’m good on him.
Now that I’m “good” meaning “I’m done”, I dont see how in the world any of the following predictions will come true.  I know, I know I thought it was THE END before, but this time, I’m so over it lol.

- Yona - Specificall y said I would be offered a commitment from him at the end of the year and I would sleep on it and think “is this the right choice” - she says I will say yes and stick with it. This was a very detailed prediction (over 20 mins long) describing the POI exactly and how it would happen
- Kisha - Specificall y saw POI getting better and improving his life to where we would have a solid relationshi p in the fall - Companionsh ip, Relationshi p and Partnership she said all of the above
- Cookie - Now she flipped on me - she said all these positive things would happen between us after I knew him a year. Here we are and nothing. She also mentioned him inviting me to things, meeting family (clearly she saw the wrong person) and me feeling complete and in a good place at the end of the year. Now, she doesn’t see me in a relationshi p with him or anyone else this year.

Indio, Tajah, Venus, etc all of my other readers saw this moving forward, however they DID warn me about his inconsisten cy. ALL OF THEM. Lol. I’m just done with the inconsisten cy for this long, I mean, its just retarded.

So, I’m good! I’m not sad or disappointe d (he has disappointe d me enough). I do not see how Kisha and Yona could be right because the POI has gone far beyond no return. We could possibly still be friends, but thats it.

And no I don’t want to “hope”....actually I’ve never “hoped” in this situation, I took it as it came. So no need in mentioning not to lose hope, because it was never there

Again, if anything changes, I’ll update. Some predicted events that happen between me and him may happen, but I doubt I’ll be in a committed relationshi p - he isn’t ready for one and I dont even want one with him after all this anyway (I questioned it the entire time but, yeah I’m good)

Sounds to me like he may come around, offering that commitment, and you'll be asking yourself, "Is this the right choice" BECAUSE of the lesser interest in him. Like, maybe you'll find that when he comes around, you're missing him, and then you'll be emotionally conflicted and maybe Yona will end up being right? It wouldn't be the first time this happened;)
Either way, I do hope she's right for you this time, too! If not for the guy, for the fact that you'll have that reader who's "always" accurate for you! You deserve that! Hope you're doing well <3 <3 <3

[Sparkle002]

Thanks Josh!

I felt it is my DUTY to update my current situation with regard to my story.

Currently I have 2 guys around me: my POI (the one referenced in the topic of this thread) and the “New Guy”

So just an update - while most of my positive predictions came true through March as predicted (things getting better) - the reality is, NOTHING has happened since the end of March.

While I’ve been in contact with my POI, I have not seen him in a month. There are some reasons why this has happened (1: he stated he wasn’t ready for a relationshi p, which is fine, but some things he said threw me off and, 2: I said something that threw him off for a while) - however I didnt think that those things would keep us in this “separation” as long as we have now.

Now, I will say - when readers say things will get “BETTER”, yeah it means exactly that (if it comes true). Better doesnt mean forever. It’s like a weather front that comes through and doesnt last. It just like being “happy”, no one is happy consistentl y, content maybe, but not necessarily happy. Basically this term is as vague as SOON and MAYBE.

Anyway, in the meantime I met the new guy. No real updates there yet, as he is still new.

Basically given the weather of emotions I’m dealing with now (not necessarily a Thunderstor m because I’m not torn up about it now, however I’d call it a Thunderstor m about 3 weeks ago when it was all fresh when we had our tiff), but now I’d say my emotions are more or less like Partly Sunny skies. So I’m good.

I say this to say here are what my readers have predicted - yet at this point, I am over the POI. Maybe the new guy will be the new POI who knows. But I’m good on him.
Now that I’m “good” meaning “I’m done”, I dont see how in the world any of the following predictions will come true.  I know, I know I thought it was THE END before, but this time, I’m so over it lol.

- Yona - Specificall y said I would be offered a commitment from him at the end of the year and I would sleep on it and think “is this the right choice” - she says I will say yes and stick with it. This was a very detailed prediction (over 20 mins long) describing the POI exactly and how it would happen
- Kisha - Specificall y saw POI getting better and improving his life to where we would have a solid relationshi p in the fall - Companionsh ip, Relationshi p and Partnership she said all of the above
- Cookie - Now she flipped on me - she said all these positive things would happen between us after I knew him a year. Here we are and nothing. She also mentioned him inviting me to things, meeting family (clearly she saw the wrong person) and me feeling complete and in a good place at the end of the year. Now, she doesn’t see me in a relationshi p with him or anyone else this year.

Indio, Tajah, Venus, etc all of my other readers saw this moving forward, however they DID warn me about his inconsisten cy. ALL OF THEM. Lol. I’m just done with the inconsisten cy for this long, I mean, its just retarded.

So, I’m good! I’m not sad or disappointe d (he has disappointe d me enough). I do not see how Kisha and Yona could be right because the POI has gone far beyond no return. We could possibly still be friends, but thats it.

And no I don’t want to “hope”....actually I’ve never “hoped” in this situation, I took it as it came. So no need in mentioning not to lose hope, because it was never there

Again, if anything changes, I’ll update. Some predicted events that happen between me and him may happen, but I doubt I’ll be in a committed relationshi p - he isn’t ready for one and I dont even want one with him after all this anyway (I questioned it the entire time but, yeah I’m good)

Sounds to me like he may come around, offering that commitment, and you'll be asking yourself, "Is this the right choice" BECAUSE of the lesser interest in him. Like, maybe you'll find that when he comes around, you're missing him, and then you'll be emotionally conflicted and maybe Yona will end up being right? It wouldn't be the first time this happened;)
Either way, I do hope she's right for you this time, too! If not for the guy, for the fact that you'll have that reader who's "always" accurate for you! You deserve that! Hope you're doing well <3 <3 <3

[josh34]

Thanks Josh!

I felt it is my DUTY to update my current situation with regard to my story.

Currently I have 2 guys around me: my POI (the one referenced in the topic of this thread) and the “New Guy”

So just an update - while most of my positive predictions came true through March as predicted (things getting better) - the reality is, NOTHING has happened since the end of March.

While I’ve been in contact with my POI, I have not seen him in a month. There are some reasons why this has happened (1: he stated he wasn’t ready for a relationshi p, which is fine, but some things he said threw me off and, 2: I said something that threw him off for a while) - however I didnt think that those things would keep us in this “separation” as long as we have now.

Now, I will say - when readers say things will get “BETTER”, yeah it means exactly that (if it comes true). Better doesnt mean forever. It’s like a weather front that comes through and doesnt last. It just like being “happy”, no one is happy consistentl y, content maybe, but not necessarily happy. Basically this term is as vague as SOON and MAYBE.

Anyway, in the meantime I met the new guy. No real updates there yet, as he is still new.

Basically given the weather of emotions I’m dealing with now (not necessarily a Thunderstor m because I’m not torn up about it now, however I’d call it a Thunderstor m about 3 weeks ago when it was all fresh when we had our tiff), but now I’d say my emotions are more or less like Partly Sunny skies. So I’m good.

I say this to say here are what my readers have predicted - yet at this point, I am over the POI. Maybe the new guy will be the new POI who knows. But I’m good on him.
Now that I’m “good” meaning “I’m done”, I dont see how in the world any of the following predictions will come true.  I know, I know I thought it was THE END before, but this time, I’m so over it lol.

- Yona - Specificall y said I would be offered a commitment from him at the end of the year and I would sleep on it and think “is this the right choice” - she says I will say yes and stick with it. This was a very detailed prediction (over 20 mins long) describing the POI exactly and how it would happen
- Kisha - Specificall y saw POI getting better and improving his life to where we would have a solid relationshi p in the fall - Companionsh ip, Relationshi p and Partnership she said all of the above
- Cookie - Now she flipped on me - she said all these positive things would happen between us after I knew him a year. Here we are and nothing. She also mentioned him inviting me to things, meeting family (clearly she saw the wrong person) and me feeling complete and in a good place at the end of the year. Now, she doesn’t see me in a relationshi p with him or anyone else this year.

Indio, Tajah, Venus, etc all of my other readers saw this moving forward, however they DID warn me about his inconsisten cy. ALL OF THEM. Lol. I’m just done with the inconsisten cy for this long, I mean, its just retarded.

So, I’m good! I’m not sad or disappointe d (he has disappointe d me enough). I do not see how Kisha and Yona could be right because the POI has gone far beyond no return. We could possibly still be friends, but thats it.

And no I don’t want to “hope”....actually I’ve never “hoped” in this situation, I took it as it came. So no need in mentioning not to lose hope, because it was never there

Again, if anything changes, I’ll update. Some predicted events that happen between me and him may happen, but I doubt I’ll be in a committed relationshi p - he isn’t ready for one and I dont even want one with him after all this anyway (I questioned it the entire time but, yeah I’m good)

Sounds to me like he may come around, offering that commitment, and you'll be asking yourself, "Is this the right choice" BECAUSE of the lesser interest in him. Like, maybe you'll find that when he comes around, you're missing him, and then you'll be emotionally conflicted and maybe Yona will end up being right? It wouldn't be the first time this happened;)
Either way, I do hope she's right for you this time, too! If not for the guy, for the fact that you'll have that reader who's "always" accurate for you! You deserve that! Hope you're doing well <3 <3 <3

You're welcome Sparkle! <3 <3 <3 You deserve that happiness, in whichever form you desire! Please stay positive! If not about this man, then about the fact that Yona can be, and would be, consistentl y accurate for yo. You deserve to smile:) Hope you have a wonderful rest of your night!

[Sparkle002]

I’m sooo with you on that! I just feel the negatives are true and the positives are not or if they are they last for a short while

[Sparkle002]

All, I ended the situationsh ip with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
 THE END

[Sparkle002]

Oh Sparkle. It sounds like you're standing strong, keeping your head up high. You've always struck me as someone solid and grounded. May not be of much solace for now, but all will be OK and what you said to POI was so true. Sending you big virtual (((hugs)))

Thanks gg!

[hope36]

All, I ended the situationsh ip with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
 THE END

Good luck Sparkle!! Am glad it ended cordially and not in a nasty way, and you kept your head!!
Much love xoxoxox!!!

[Sparkle002]

All, I ended the situationsh ip with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
 THE END

Good luck Sparkle!! Am glad it ended cordially and not in a nasty way, and you kept your head!!
Much love xoxoxox!!!

Thanks hope!

[sawthelight]

i agree, good luck Sparkle..so rry to hear the disappointi ng news, but I think you did the right thing!

[Sparkle002]

i agree, good luck Sparkle..so rry to hear the disappointi ng news, but I think you did the right thing!

Aww THANK YOU GUYS!!   

[sawthelight]

setting boundaries is so important.  I am often too much of a "giver" and people can take advantage, even if they don't realize they are doing it.  You always have to think "is this enough for me" and if it isn't, then walk.  Just my mindset these days lol.

[Sparkle002]

setting boundaries is so important.  I am often too much of a "giver" and people can take advantage, even if they don't realize they are doing it.  You always have to think "is this enough for me" and if it isn't, then walk.  Just my mindset these days lol.

So true Sawthelight soooo true

[Sparkle002]

@bstalling - Welp you were RIGHT! LOL this DID happen with someone else (my newer POI), in true Yona fashion

I will say Yona was probably seeing someone else and mistaking him for the current POI. Its probably something that will happen years later.

I agree that it could be someone else, BUT nah. I think she is just wrong in this instance (first time for her to be completely wrong with me but its ok).

When I tell you the POI she describes is so specific to the guy in question (i.e. legal situation with BM, stress due to his business, etc) she’s seeing him, but its just wrong lol.

Also my cards move pretty fast....the legal situation with him is happening this year (I know I wont be dealing with him a year later dealing that child support situation sheesh)

well let me add this tidbit - this is a repeated prediction from January with more detail. There is a clip that states “he will tell you a lie or excuse, its not malicious, but DO NOT challenge him on it”. IN my most recent reading in April, the cards said the SAME THING - it said the lie was not malicious and it could actually be a surprise because - thats what ppl do when they are keeping a surprise (is what Yona said). But again the cards warned me to NOT challenge it until I see him face to face.

But I understand bstalling, if I saw someone post this I’d say the same thing, but there is no way this same type of scenario with the specificity would happen with someone else who is going through a legal situation with their BM, owns a business, etc etc - if it was a bit of a vague prediction I’d be open to it being someone else, but NAH lol