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lightme:
thanks for sharing so much with us, very interesting.

who was the psychic who spoilt you and did you find her after she left that network?

4everhopeful:
Hello High, So happy to meet you and I must say that I wish I had your attitude and courage when my ex first broke up with me. I think I would be in a completely different place at this time. I admire you very much. Youre very uplifting and appear to be a strong confident woman. Like I used to be, lol. But Im getting back to that place after so long. Good luck to you.

Highlyfavored1:

--- Quote from: 4everhopeful on September 26, 2011, 02:07:18 AM ---Hello High, So happy to meet you and I must say that I wish I had your attitude and courage when my ex first broke up with me. I think I would be in a completely different place at this time. I admire you very much. Youre very uplifting and appear to be a strong confident woman. Like I used to be, lol. But Im getting back to that place after so long. Good luck to you.

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Hello 4ever!

OH!!!! Let me just tell you it hasn't always been that way. I use to be embarrassed to tell anyone this b/c I was ashamed I let myself get this far. But it "AINT" easy. I have always prided myself in being able to walk away from any MAN! But this has taken (2) Complete Breakdown's I mean full FLEDGED can't get out of BED type! Mom has to come take care of me! Taking LEAVE from WORK & SCHOOL (GRAD SCHOOL)

It's your own opinion, but this Soul-Mate stuff is REAL. Physically and MENTALLY I just can't do it!!! I can't  I'm IN LOVE to the 10th POWER!!! I can't even look at a picture of him..It's THAT BAD!

BUT before I go COMPLETELY BROKE & INSANE b/c I'm prescribed anxiety & sleeping medication!!! During the time we were broke up.  See I'm the one who is WALKING AWAY from HIM! He's scared I know, but I can't keep getting my heart broken. he comes in really hard then he pulls away <--------> its back and forth and I CAN'T. If the predictions happen I will be ELATED!! OVERJOYED!!! but in the meantime I've decided to surrender..wave the white flag!! I'm not reaching out anymore & if he wants me in his life b/c I can't be HIS FRIEND! (tried that..he can't either) he has to give me commitment so until then(if it happens) I'm GONE!

4everhopeful:
Oh I totally understand the soulmate thing. Even with everything that has happened and no contact from my ex for very, very long, the feelings are still there. They just dont leave. But there comes a time(in my situation) to just give up and walk away for good. But the feelings dont leave that easily. And the dating world is vicious. Too many young beautiful women there seeking attention from the gentlemen, even the ones that are my age. Im 54, so dating just doesnt come as easily as it used to. Outer beauty fades and is replaced by signs of aging, this is something that is not attractive to most men. Unless they take the time to know a woman of my age, they usually just arent interested. The world is so superficial these days. But I am finding my strength again, one day at a time. I guess some things were just never meant to be so I have to accept it.
You did make one comment about Abrielle telling you that he called you a pet name, but she asked you what it was. She told me the same thing except that she told me what the pet name was. I didnt tell her. I was so surprised when she blurted out the name. I almost fell off the bed, lol. Then she also gave me another little quirk of his that no one would have known. Some of this psychic stuff I do have faith in, but some of the predictions I still see as fluff. Something to make us feel good in the moment and maybe to help us to let go in our own time, but really the fluff just keeps us hanging on and never lets us loose from the hope. Takes a long time to let go of it since it is embedded in our brains, even when reality hits us in the face like a freight train, lol.
Good luck with your ordeal, I hope he comes to his senses and decides to give his all to your relationship.

sunandmoon:
HF1, I think you are amazing by being able to let go so quickly. I was stuck in a rut for 18 mos and finally let myself go to be with someone else who has been interested in me for awhile. Literally since winter, maybe 6 mos I held this new r/s at arms length hoping my ex would come around. Damned if it hasn't been now 5 weeks since I last heard from him in any form, save from a pic he posted on his fb wall last week.

Yes, it is draining and exhausting but I did it believing it would show how much I loved him and really wanted to be with him. I so get the the BLAH! LOL

I believe that I had to get to a certain point in order to be able to let go and I reached it last month. A few psychics told me I would have a choice to make and it looks as though they are right - if he ever decides to seek me out again. At this stage I am much more interested in the guy I am seeing now, as HE WANTS to spend time with me and my ex could care less.

Yes, I always felt I was strong and independent and this knocked me on my ass! I refused medication, don't know if it would have helped me move along at all. Pain killers and cold meds are all I ever take. I spent many many hours in bed wondering what on earth I was doing. I admire you for picking yourself up! Kudos to you.  :)

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