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My Story (Newbie)
lightme:
that's right, Synergy.
i also observed that many of us are of a stable mature age group, like 30s and 40s. and we are talking of men in their 40s !!! why are they acting like they are 18 when they had been thru divorce and relationships? in the first place did they even tell us they are so scared and so overwhelmed by the intense feelings?
misty:
hey lightme, thanks for the warm welcome.
I did have the privilege to talk to Therese (PS) 2 different times in the past 3 weeks. My first reading only lasted 5 mins and whatever she said didn't make sense to me because she told me that it was my exboyfriend that was having trust issues with me and would try bringing up the topic of getting back together in about 1-2 weeks and that he was uncomfortable with the presence of someone around me. I didn't know what to do with that.
Second time reading with her lasted for 12 minutes exactly a week after the last, I called her the day after i found pictures of my ex with a girl he's been physical with. What hurt the most was that the entire time we've been broken up, he's ALWAYS said that he still loves me. Therese picked up everything right away and she even remembered me and my situation. She was extremely understanding yet she did kind of scold me like how a mother does saying he has the right to do whatever he wants with after we break up and so do I.
Her predictions for the final outcome were still positive, she gave me quite some advice, it made sense this time and i'm following them she said she thinks I should take him back. Even though my and my ex have to see eachother at school twice a week (we're in 3 different classes together), I still ignore him. 2 weeks ago she said it would be about 2-3 weeks after when he starts getting aggressive trying to make me talk to him. Well its almost been 2 weeks, this thursday.
I recommend her I've read a lot of good reviews about her but what still makes me doubt her is how she WAS NOT ABLE TO sense the person AROUND HIM!! the booty call of his.. I feel like maybe i shouldnt hold this on her nor any of the other readers, (Ricky, Stella, Isis) but cmon. I know I only read with her for 5 mins the first time but I read with Ricky for 40 minutes and he clearly said my ex was lonely even though he has so many people around him and he wasn't in a relationship... So do Psychics not consider bootycalls as relationships?
Im sorry for the long post lightme..:S I don;t talk much but when i get started its hard for me to stop lol
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Should i have just post this in the individual Therese section? I don't think i should copy and paste this and put it there too
lightme:
Hello Misty,
thank you for sharingyour experience with Therese, ( and don't worry about long post :) i had been thinking of calling her for the past two weeks. currently i am trying to keep myself clear headed and also trying to find out the more honest psychics.
i have this problem with psychics not picking up on the third party too. the thing is, once i told the psychic about the third party, the psychic could "suddenly" come out with information about the third party. if you can read the third party, how come you didn't mention her right from the beginning? some psychics would do the stunt of asking you the name of the third party before coming out with the info.
i did read with a few psychics who picked up on the 3rd party without me saying anything. still, it was just a very vague pick up. i haven't met one who is so super good to paint the whole picture accurately before me.
keep sharing with us, Misty.
sunandmoon:
lightme hit the nail on the head! When we were together there was NOTHING and I mean NOTHING that would keep him from me!!!! Didn't matter how broke or busy or sick or tired he was, I was #1 to him. Now I am nothing but dirt, on a good day. They say the women he talks to the most (I'd honestly be shocked if they were actually physical) is just someone that yes, cares for him, but on his end he likes the attention and sometimes plays games with her because she cares for him. Well for 18 mos I was more than willing to give him attention yet she got more and is still getting it - and she is WEIRD. Do I want a man who enjoys playing games with other women? Did he enjoy playing games with my heart and emotions?
He has had failed relationships, been married and yep at 40 he should be able to handle things. I know there are reasons it's harder for him than most but that doesn't excuse him from everything.
He had NO problems telling me his thoughts and feelings in the past.
Now I have found a man who only keeps quiet because he doesn't want to scare me off. Any time I let something slip about my feelings, he is right there to back them up with his. Plus I can FEEL how much he cares about me, there is no mystery. That is what it's all about IMO
For those of you still holding out hope, I am not picking on you at all. Trust me I totally get your feelings. I was there for 18 months. Some day your ex will either come around or you'll decide you've gone through enough pain and move on. Either way, it will all work out for the best :)
vanyct:
In regards to psychics not picking up on the third person, I have been told by psychics that sometimes they cannot pick up on that person because you, the person they are reading do not have direct interaction with them so their energy is not around you, especially if you are not aware that this person in in your SM life. The same thing has happened with me, they kind of pick up on a woman but they ask me if I am aware of her. When I say yes, they ask me for her name, as soon as I provide it they give me a bunch of details.
This may just be an excuse for not giving an accurate reading but that is what I've been told by some psychics.
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