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Highlyfavored1:
Hello

I'm new so I'd thought I'd post my story with how I began to use these psychic Networks (Most of which I regret)

It all started in Feb 2010 when I ended a 3 and 1/2 year relationship with a guy who I was never in love with. I loved him at one point, but I was never in love with him. I met him at work along with my (SM) I chose him b/c the (SM) seemed to hard and complicated(which I would later find out to be true) this guy was the "safe" choice. I knew I would not get hurt from Day (1), and by hurt I mean heartbroken Unfortunately he ended up getting hurt and still is till this day...more on that later.

Now, where were we? ok yes Feb 2010 I broke up with the "safe" guy and in March 2010 I started having dreams about the (SM) I had not seen him since 2008 (2years) so it kind of freaked me out, and every time I would dream about him I would get contact from him or communication. So I called a Psychic. I chose The Psychic Power Network $1.99 a minute and so it began. Most would tell me that that the (SM) and I would never be together and I would meet someone in 2 months, 3 months 6 months..ect..) Then I ran across this one psychic on the network who told me in March that he and I would be in a relationship and he would finally tell me that he wants to be in a relationship with me before the end of August, 2010. It was March I'm thinking "yeah right" That was 6 months down the road. Each prediction she made for contact "DID" happen. If it was 10 Days, 5 Days 1 Day on the 25th, whenever IT HAPPENED (100%) But I doubted he and I would ever be in a relationship. He's very handsome and had women falling all over him throwing themselves at him. He'd never settle down!

Fast forward August 30th, 2010 he asked me to be in a relationship! The one of (3) who I trust was RIGHT! but it has been an up & down battle with him every since. It hasn't been easy and for now I'm letting  God take control. The relationship hasn't been bad, there is no cheating or other issues. He is afraid, his feelings are intense and he has told me so things are "stuck" not moving forward. I've made the decision to date other people. I've consulted with Steve Gunn the "soul mate expert" I 've read the book "When Two Souls Connect" and it helped me to understand the dynamics of the relationship. So I know all about the deeper dynamics going on in the relationship. But since we are "stuck" and have been for 3 months I can't sit by and "do nothing" as I've been told, and wait for contact ect..

Now until I have commitment, which "most" say I will get but it will be end of this year or next year, I'm going to date other people. and who knows what may happen? I've streamed down my consultations to once a month & not with anyone new. My soul-mate will have to either deal with the "fear" or lose me in the process. That's his choice. Venus(who I hated at first) but came to find out she was right told me to take care of me and she was right! I'm not hoping he comes around. I "KNOW" he will, but will I be there when he does???

Now I have talked to a TON! and I do mean a TON so if u every want my opinion on who at California, Source, Access, PPN, Independent then I can tell you. I didn't have any success at Keen and only was there a short time.

I use to do Readings about 10 years ago on other people using Playing Cards, but I never tried on myself. I had a high accuracy rate, but it was draining and I would get called 24hrs to do readings so I stopped & want to try doing them on myself at some point. But for now I will relinquish the "NEED TO KNOW" and just have "FAITH" instead.

lightme:
hello Misty, Maryjane and Highlyfavored, big welcome to you all and is so nice to have new members to join us and share your stories!

highlyfavored, can you elaborate more on "your SM is stuck by fear"? i am sure you obviously like him, so what is his fear based on? is it something to do with commitment phobia? what did the psychics say?

can you share your reviews on Thereas PS, Isabella and Raven star ( PA ) if you had tried them?i haven't tried Thereas before but very keen. would appreciate your comments , thank you!

Highlyfavored1:

--- Quote from: lightme on September 25, 2011, 10:01:22 PM ---hello Misty, Maryjane and Highlyfavored, big welcome to you all and is so nice to have new members to join us and share your stories!

highlyfavored, can you elaborate more on "your SM is stuck by fear"? i am sure you obviously like him, so what is his fear based on? is it something to do with commitment phobia? what did the psychics say?

can you share your reviews on Thereas PS, Isabella and Raven star ( PA ) if you had tried them?i haven't tried Thereas before but very keen. would appreciate your comments , thank you!

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lightme ..Sure
When I say stuck I mean he's afraid to move forward to more committed territory engagement and marriage. Now the thing is I was told this by a few Psychics even the one's I trust, but I didn't believe them. He was too confident and put on a front really well.  He told me in June that he is terrified of moving the relationship forward b/c he feels he will fail and that fear of failure is keeping things the way they are. I'm TIRED and EXHAUSTED. I'm scared too, but I can't let my life be controlled with that fear. I invested a lot emotionally and spiritually in this relationship and Ive seen the HIGHEST HIGH'S and the lowest LOWS. He has two fears to deal with (1)Losing Me (2)Moving the relationship forward-Commitment. I don't want to hurt him, but this back and forth pulling away and coming together is wreaking HAVOC on me Mentally and Physically I'm drained!!!!

Reviews:

Therese(Psychic Source) I haven't spoken to her in a while. She was accurate for me on when there would be Communication and Physical Contact from my guy. She is known for her timing abilities. She was wrong about me getting a job that she said I would get offered. I didn't get offered the job. She reads Tarot and is good at it. She is better for me dealing with relationship issues.

Raven Star(Psychic Access) I called her when my guy and I broke up. We had been broken up for 2 and 1/2 weeks at the point I called her. She asked me how long we had been broken up and I told her. She said it will be a month, or exactly 4weeks you have 2 more weeks to go. She was right it was exactly a month to the date. I called her once before and she was accurate on timing on when I would see my guy again. She said 3weeks at the most is your longest wait. She was right again. She is worth calling she's cheap and has good emphatic abilities.

Isabella(Psychic Access) I spoke to her once in July before the break-up, and she told me he was my soul-mate things would be bad for 3 to 4 months and I would have to have patience. (My patience is GONE)(lol) She said things would get better. I haven't given her prediction time to manifest b/c my patience is on the line. She is quick too

Hope this helps!

lightme:
Hi High,

i feel the same as you towards Raven and Isabella. i think Raven is pretty good on short term prediction for her price.

you said your SM is confident on the front, do you mean he acted like he was very sure in the beginning but later couldn't follow thru his words? ( my guy is like this.) i totally understand what you mean by being drained and exhausted. so i guess you are waiting for the big prediction? what is your timeline like?

Highlyfavored1:

--- Quote from: greengrlx333 on September 25, 2011, 11:56:56 PM ---Welcome Newbies :D

Highlyfavored:  who have you used on CP and what were your experiences? 

Is there communication now between you and your sm?

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greengrlx33,

To answer the shortest question first yes, there is communication between he and I. It is sporadic and via text about once a week! It consist of him telling me he is in love with me (BLAH) and misses me (BLAH) his actions are completely different so that is why I say (BLAH) if you missed me you would communicate more..right?? logically that's the right answer. But anyway.

I was BIG on timing at one point b/c I had a reader that Spoiled me and every time she said communication, contact, or an event or anything dealing with timing would occur she was right. She dealt with OUTCOMES. She didn't read the past  FUTURE only! If she couldn't see a date or time frame she would say so. So I was sooo spoiled. Then she left the network I was using! So in between the time I found her again I tried out all these others and wasted MONEY!!!

California Psychics: (These are from July/August) when my guy & I were separated. I went overboard calling (NEVER AGAIN)

Allison- Gave me a specific time frame for communication and it didn't occur. She and I didn't have a connection. It never occurred

Venus - I didn't like the reading, but what she told me has been the truth. She doesn't see my guy in commitment territory till December. I spoke to her in August.

Darcy - told me when communication would occur - gave me three dates, it happened. She told me she was 99.9% accurate

Venice- I had such high hopes for her & 3 pages full of notes! She gave me dates and times and checked and double checked. I spoke to her in July. She said my guy and I would be in Full Relationship status by the 1st day of Fall..um..NOPE hasn't occurred. Still up and down! She said that I would marry this guy. She repeated it 3 times! She said Next year 2012 ( yeah well, I'm not holding my breath or unto that prediction) I don't know it could be a factor of waiting but she sounded SO CONFIDENT in her dates.

Abrielle - Told me I would see my guy the weekend of Labor Day or the next weekend. It has not happened. Said my guy calls me a Pet Name. She wanted to know what it was. I told her but I had other people tell me she told them that too.  She also sees marriage. None of her predictions for me have panned out. She did however read the PRESENT very well.

Devyn- Told me to leave the guy, that I would meet someone new that was my soulmate before the end of September. (5) More days left & the countdown continues.

Danni- Gave a 3 week prediction that happened, everything else was advice.

Nina- Told me the month of September would be silent and a little into October. Told me that I would see him in October and there would be (intimacy) and November his heart would start talking to him. It would take 4 months from November - Feb 2011. I will get a full commitment after Feb 2011 talks of marriage, engagement. ect. So far she has been right about the month of September. She also told me DO NOT CALL HER BACK for a while to check in maybe Oct/Nov but don't call her often. Give the predictions time to manifest. (WOW) She was very confident. All I told her was my name and she took off from there. September Prediction has been true. (Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)

Samadi- Um :o ??????? She speaks to Spirit guides. She couldn't give me a time frame. She said she can tell me that it will be 8 more weeks up and down. My guy has work to do with his Ego and The Universe is getting everyone into alignment. "Yeah" She's on some DEEP..DEEP..type stuff I don't recommend for the faint at heart. You must be highly developed on your spiritual journey to talk with her.(Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)

Meryl- Sounded Very confident told me that I will marry my (S/M) in July/August 2012
(I don't believe her) Said I would meet his family in Dec/Jan(2011/2012) that's when engagement would occur. End of October Better w/Communication. (Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)

Mona- Sounds like she's 12 but don't let that fool you. Prediction's for December for things picking up and no commitment till March of next yr and then things move extremely fast. marriage & engagement will occur very quick.(Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)

Miriam- I actually liked She just asked my name and took off!Told me my guy wants this relationship so bad and is terrified at the same time (Same thing he said to me in June) Has Predictions for this upcoming week for communication either Monday or Thursday (She told me she is not good with time frames) She said she sees communication the last week in September but can't pinpoint exactly when and it will be just friendly. Stated tht Oct/Nov up and down. She also sees intimacy in October like Nina. Told me to PLEASE give it more time & not walk away. I've already started walking (Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)

Natalie - Saw that my guy was checking up on me on facebook. She was right about that my guy sent me screenshots of my facebook updates for a week. Wondering if I was seeing someone else. He and I are not facebook friends, so I don't know how he was able to see it Said she didn't know cause I have (3) men around me. My guy
was in front and the other two are on the side, and I will have a choice to make. I HAVE NO IDEA who the other two guys are! Timeframe for contact didn't occur

Anasela- Called her twice she got the same cards both times. Now she picked up on My guy's personality very well, what he did for a living everything in the PRESENT she get's 10 stars for. She was great. She gave NO TIME FRAMES. She just gave predictions. said we will live together, get married, and I started laughing on the phone. She told me "She will have the last laugh" She said I don't have to believe her She prefers that I don't but it WILL HAPPEN! VERY CONFIDENT.

Michelle- Told me to date other people and her time frame for contact did occur.

Charlie - Accurately described my physical appearance and has good empath abilities. He didn't make any predictions

Jaqueline - She was very Quick! Accurate description of the situation her prediction for contact occurred, but not in the time frame she gave. About 3 days later. Her predictions are for Nov/December.


THE END----FINALLY!

Now "If" I decide to call California Psychics again It will be in 2012. I have enough "PREDICTIONS" to last me until then! I'm trying to go with my own intuitiveness for now and FAITH!

Hopes this help someone.

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