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Issues with moving on

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4everhopeful:
Yeah, you know right after I saw the pic of the current girlfriend being pregnant, I immediately called Eve. She is the one that said she felt an infant around them back in early summer. She still has the nerve to say that he will not marry her and will not bring her or the baby back to the states. That he will come knocking on my door when I am with someone else and cause confusion but that I will make the right decision when I come to the fork in the road. The funny thing is that I have heard that same story so many times from so many of the psychics. Who knows what to believe anymore? And what makes it so confusing is that they get so much right, then here comes something like this. Another funny thing, Seha and Abigail both used the words that I would be so "shocked", but I thought they meant that I would be shocked when I got contact from him, but the shock was seeing her pregnant. I know he will love this baby, and I would never wish harm to the baby, the mother, or the ex. But I also know that he never wanted more children, not mine, nor anymore of his own. So I do feel that he is upset about the situation. And the pic of her shows her without wedding or engagement ring. Makes you wonder when Eve says he will not marry this woman, no matter what.
I had emailed Seha at her personal website but she couldnt read for me there since I was a client with her at CP. I emailed her about the news I had just found out and told her that I guessed it was time to move on but thanked her for being beside me and trying to help me with this situation. She did email back and said she was sorry that the predictions didnt pan out, but that she had to say that she still doesnt think Ive seen the last of this man, regardless of the circumstances. So strange that they would still say that isnt it. Doesnt mean Im gonna hang onto hope though. Im going out when I get the chance and moving on with my life. If I find happiness with someone else, then the ex will have missed out if he ever does show up again. Its not that I dont love him anymore, because I will always love that man, but its time I moved on and just put all of this in the past. Who knows what the psychics are seeing, it seems to me that even though they do get some stuff right, some of the stuff they see is not what we think they are seeing, even though we have to agree that they were right. Its just different than we expected. Wish someone could explain just how it all works and what we can count on and what we cant. Guess we really arent supposed to know the future, lol.
BTW: I got a "Good Morning" text from my old friend this morning.  He pops up from time to time, and I do know that he recently broke up with his girlfriend. He used to call me and ask my advice and opinion about stuff going on with her. I saw red flags all over the place and told him so but wished him luck all the same. It seems it didnt work out after all. Im not going into this with expectations but just spending time with him from time to time would be nice. We always had fun together so who knows. Gonna keep an open mind about the whole thing.

sunandmoon:
Hey 4ever, fun is where it's at! Anything to put a smile on your face is key and if it leads to something more, all the better.  :)

They could be banking on the fact that 9 out of 10 exs will show back up again even if it's just to say hi. I had pretty much every guy in my past (from high school/college) pop back up at some point (not that I went out with a lot, but seriously 3 of them and one of them probes every couple of years about my life - of course he is the worst of the bunch). Who knows why they do it. So maybe psychics are working off probabilities. I can't deny they do get current things correctly.

When I talked to Reed he actually described both guys very well. This was a month before I started to officially see the new guy and Reed said I would be happy with either in the future and I'd know when it was time to sever the r/s with my ex.

Jean pegged both guys well too. But Reed was one of only two that saw a good future with the new guy, the others kept focused on the ex.

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