I'm going to try to reply to a few comments in one post:
Where a man comes back or not, is based on the energy connection as well and the role he had. Any man i had dated with some level of seriousness, like boyfriend type guys have always come back. Guys that i've dated 95% always come back, the ones that didn't were surface level things, that i never felt any form of investment or connection with. So one has to consider the energetic connection to start with. If it's a guy you went out with once or twice, the likelihood of him coming back is much slimmer than someone you dated for three months. Yes, men have egos and different personalities. I've had men come back after 20 years. By then i didn't want them lol Everyone has freewill, i know so many on this board hate this idea, but it's a fact and true. So something like a mirror technique will not work on a person who isn't into you or isn't open to you on an energetic bases. These things can work, but also it depends on the your vibration when you're doing it as well. YOu have to get yourself into a high vibrational state during. The other problem is, that when we are done and then we start thinking about what we don't have, you've basically undid all work, you need to have some level of high vibration. Doesn't have to be directed at the person, but for you in general. Like watch a comedy, something that will make you laugh, give you good happy feelings. Not thinking about and worrying about the POI and if it's working, if you're wondering if it's working, you're sending out mixed signals. This is why letting go is so important. manifestations is really retraining your brain, and honestly, it can only help you in every day life. The other over looked aspects here is self love, most people don't have any or very little, or think they do when they don't. We teach others how to love us. we can't expect anyone to love us when we can't love ourselves, etc... clique maybe, but it's true.
When i read messages on this board, I read blame. I rarely read that someone has taken accountability. It's the psychic's fault this happened, no, it's not. He/She didn't hold a gun to your head, no one forced you to do anything. They gave information, what you do with that information is your responsibility. No one elses. There is inherent risk with everything in life. i will say from this board alone, some of the people here do have very unrealistic expectations of what a psychic can do or not do. Many don't realize that each has different abilities, and based on various factors that day, that is what they will pick up. Somethings are destined , others' are not. You are not meant to always know everything, so not everything will be shown to the psychic or the card reader etc. It doesn't make them bad at what they do. It means that you're not meant to know because this is part of your life lesson and you are meant to learn from it what you contracted to do before you came here. So that can be for many people very similar lessons. No psychic is ever 100% accurate all the time, anyone who claims to be, isn't a real psychic. Psychics ares still human beings at different levels of evolution, so many may not like to admit they are wrong, it sucks, but it's a human behaviour, just like doctors don't like to admit when they are wrong. I had a friend that has cancer, the doctor tried to convince them it was IBS and nothing else. Even after he was diagnosed with cancer, that doctor never admitted any fault. It's not right, but a human condition. It takes a highly evolved person, to admit they are wrong. Majority of people on the planet have difficulty with this, what one does for a living isn't an exception. Hence, the example. We have numerous choices, the psychic will see the one that is most likely to happen at that time. It's impossible to predict every scenario, and very unrealistic. There are many factors to consider. A psychic that isn't as descriptive as another doesn't equal a bad psychic. Just like a descriptive one doesn't equal good. I've had what many of you call basic psychics be more accurate than the ones that spin a whole movie for you.
Psychics are human beings, some are real, some are fake. They all have human personalities, and i think because of what they do, people expect them to be better human beings, when that's just not true. It makes sense to think this, but sadly it's not. In so many fb groups all these so called "lightworkers" are he worst people i have ever encountered. titles don't mean anything.
Accountability is completely on the sitter/client, not the reader. People want everyone else to take accountability and rarely take it themselves. No different than when you ask a friend for advice, you decide whether you follow it or not. I have encountered so many people in my life that claim they didn't what they were supposed to do and it never happened, doesn't matter if its psychic advice, psychotherapy, medical etc... Many don't actually follow what they are told to do, they do versions of it, convince themselves that they do it, but don't in reality. Like I've let POI go, but still call psychics asking about him, talking and thinking about him 24/7, even to just say i dont' care i let him go. No, you didn't. If you did, you wouldn't be doing this. Dr says walk 5000 steps a day as exercise, friend walks this off and on in a day in the office and wonders why she's not losing weight, but i did my 5000 steps, no you didn't you were supposed to do them at once at a steady pace. Just an example. It doesn't mean we can't be disappointed or upset when outcomes don't happen. I have read comments on psychics saying "POI came back, but it didn't happen exactly like psychic said, so she was wrong". Ummm really? they didn't say verbatim what you were told and they are wrong? Psychics get their info like a radio station, somedays the signal is clearer than other days.
I think the other problem is that people get the same situation read by too many people. That messes up the energy, because you're not believing what you're told and you're sending it out there that you don't believe or accept it as what will happen. You don't need to have 20 plus psychics read the same situation. Why spend all that money? Maybe two, max three, and then stop. YOu're not letting go, if you are having the situation read all the time.
So what is the best thing to do? Your trusted psychic tells you POI is coming back. Great, she's right 80% of the time, so the chances are really in your favour. Now, you stop thinking about POI and accept hes' coming back and focus on you. Start that project you always wanted to do, go on that trip you wanted, take that course. When he comes to mind, put him to the side, and refocus. Work on yourself love, work on all the things that you've been putting off. Go out with your friends, have fun! Enjoy life. And worse case scenerio, he doesn't come back as she said, at least you were productive during that time and happy and going on about life and not wasting your time and energy on thinking about him.
Remember one thing most women will put their career and other things on hold for love, Most men will put love on hold for career and other things they are concerned about. We need to remember, men don't think like we do.