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4everhopeful:
Wow Cosmo11, Five and a half years before your ex came back wanting you? Amazing. I guess they really can come back after so long. But true that it isnt worth waiting around or obsessing about it. It sure wastes a lot of our valuable time.
And welcome to PhoenixSoul.

sunandmoon:
Wecome PS! My problem is actually letting go. I can set the intention and believe. I think I may have had a harder time letting go because he lives nearby and is often in contact with me. I take everything a "sign" that he's interested. At the moment I'm pissed enough at him I may be able to get over that lol

LiveLaughLove:
OMG Cosmo! that's great!

What are the steps you take for that. Ive been letting go recently and hope it helps but I want to know your steps to see if I'm missing anything or should add something to my letting go process.

lightme:

--- Quote from: cosmo11 on August 25, 2011, 07:50:18 PM ---yeah, I had to wait 6 years! haha. And if I wouldn't have let go, I don't think he would have came back. After so many disappointments you just see that they aren't worth it. You get your power back by seeing you deserve better. I just have surrendered myself to the flow of the Universe. I do still call psychics because I'm curious, but I don't take everything they say as truth. When you want something desperately you are giving off a negative vibe..you are saying that you don't trust the universe..and then what you want won't manifest. It's just like when you place an order for something...you know it's coming..so you don't think about it, and you're relaxed because you know it will come and you move on with your life. I'm so dead serious, if you all let go of your ex's you'll see that they'll come back fast compared to if you keep holding on.

http://www.chopra.com/laws/detachment
http://www.mindreality.com/law-of-detachment-flowing-with-god

I hope this helps...like I said..I've been able to manifest anything I want by not caring about it. lol It sounds so weird but it's true.

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absolutely agree. we do our best and then we just step back, and try our best focus on other areas of our life. it will be painful at the beginning, but i think it will get better. learning to let go is the only way for us to feel better over time. just like instead of holding onto hate which will only make us feel angry and not constructive, we learn to forgive and let go. so instead of pinning for our SM, we learn to trust that if it is meant to be, if it is true love the universe will make it happen. if it doesn't, it is not true love, if it is not true love, why are we still chasing it? let it go.

vanyct:
Thank you for sharing these links and I know that detachment works. The problem I have is it's hard to detach myself knowing in the back in my mind that I am doing this because in the end I want him back, so I guess I subconciously I know that I am not really detaching myself. 
I know that detachment works because I did it, and he came back, but he did it just enough to suck me back in and then we're back to the stupid guessing games again.  And as I am writting this I know that I should just move on, because why do I want to be with someone who plays with me like that? But that's my problem, that I don't care I just want to be with him.

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