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[whit777]

So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.

I've had a lot of readers say they are picking up an addiction as well.  I can't really figure out what it might be as I see my ex almost every day and he is not drunk or high.  There are other possibilities but none of them ring true yet.  Maybe it's a stock line.

That’s one line I’ve never heard....lol. I’ve heard pretty much all the rest

There's a Tarot card that usually means addictions of some kind. It obviously should be interpreted specifically to each situation and not just thrown out there as an automatic "addiction", though. It doesn't always mean that. Which is why we're calling psychics so they can use their intuition to interpret that lol. Otherwise, I can just google the definitions. But maybe that card keeps coming up for him and it's not an obvious drug or alcohol addiction but they don't know that. It could also mean a personality type or the type of guy who is really "carnal" but doesn't necessarily show it up front. It's usually a "guy" card. And I've noticed most readers use Tarot in some way, even though they don't always say it. And that's fine. But that could explain why they're all getting that but it's not as simple as they're thinking.

[star1]

So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.

I've had a lot of readers say they are picking up an addiction as well.  I can't really figure out what it might be as I see my ex almost every day and he is not drunk or high.  There are other possibilities but none of them ring true yet.  Maybe it's a stock line.

That’s one line I’ve never heard....lol. I’ve heard pretty much all the rest

There's a Tarot card that usually means addictions of some kind. It obviously should be interpreted specifically to each situation and not just thrown out there as an automatic "addiction", though. It doesn't always mean that. Which is why we're calling psychics so they can use their intuition to interpret that lol. Otherwise, I can just google the definitions. But maybe that card keeps coming up for him and it's not an obvious drug or alcohol addiction but they don't know that. It could also mean a personality type or the type of guy who is really "carnal" but doesn't necessarily show it up front. It's usually a "guy" card. And I've noticed most readers use Tarot in some way, even though they don't always say it. And that's fine. But that could explain why they're all getting that but it's not as simple as they're thinking.

That's right, that's what usually happens with tarot card readings. They see addiction from the cards and say gambling. I personally aren't a fan of tarot, one reading can be positive and you call another reader and the cards are all negative, plus the reader usually goes off too much from cards. It's definitely not drugs for this guy and he isn't an alcoholic, perhaps he drinks alot in bad times but yeah it's hard for me to confirm the readers validations as I wouldn't know since we last had contact. Thanks guys for explaining things.

[Lady_C]

Like I've mentioned in other threads, I've tried the readers recommended to me such as Psychic Will and Hazel Lowndes and nothing happened from them. Hazel was very inconsistent and she gave my first reading as positive, second when I raised concerns and questions with her that I just had to get off of my chest - she changed her tune. I wasn't impressed for £70 for less than an hr and her being so inconsistent.. Will - I only had the 1 reading with him as I've contacted him multiple times since and he's ignored me for some reason, but he seemed honest at the time of reading and saw my ex coming back and he never did. Now I know readers can get mixed up, but the things that Hazel and Will were describing and the unique way this guy is - it just had to be him. I have to accept that they got it wrong for me and I haven't met any reader yet that's been closest to correct about what really is going on with my ex.

I haven't tried Yona, and I'm having a reading with another supposed "top rated reader" this weekend, but just not holding out any hope anymore for anything to come to fruitation. I find that relationship readings are really hard to predict and I've not even had close enough luck with them. Perhaps having a reading with Yona is a good idea and she may be good for me. I also find readings a head f*ck because one reader will say something and another will say the opposite and I'm sure you guys have all experienced that which can get frustrating. Like an example with my situation, some readers say my ex isn't socialising and is like a loner, others say he's out and about being a prat with his friends to escape from it all. Because I haven't had contact from my ex for a while, I also can't validate all things that they pick up. So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.

THIS!! sounds like my situation only I'm trying to keep myself busy to escape the on going confusion. There's nothing worst than having a reading about a POI who you are no longer in contact with. My last reading prior to taking a break said my ex is isolating myself right now and previously I'd been told he was socialising a bit with friends. Maybe his situation has changed, but it's knowing who to put your trust in when there's no contact with and POI.

I've thought about having a reading with Yona but don't really like telephone readings. I can hold out for three weeks, I might see if these other predictions unfold and book a reading with her for the fall. At this point in time I have nothing to loose, if she picks up something negative it may probably free me of the cycle of readings and move on with my life.

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Like I've mentioned in other threads, I've tried the readers recommended to me such as Psychic Will and Hazel Lowndes and nothing happened from them. Hazel was very inconsistent and she gave my first reading as positive, second when I raised concerns and questions with her that I just had to get off of my chest - she changed her tune. I wasn't impressed for £70 for less than an hr and her being so inconsistent.. Will - I only had the 1 reading with him as I've contacted him multiple times since and he's ignored me for some reason, but he seemed honest at the time of reading and saw my ex coming back and he never did. Now I know readers can get mixed up, but the things that Hazel and Will were describing and the unique way this guy is - it just had to be him. I have to accept that they got it wrong for me and I haven't met any reader yet that's been closest to correct about what really is going on with my ex.

I haven't tried Yona, and I'm having a reading with another supposed "top rated reader" this weekend, but just not holding out any hope anymore for anything to come to fruitation. I find that relationship readings are really hard to predict and I've not even had close enough luck with them. Perhaps having a reading with Yona is a good idea and she may be good for me. I also find readings a head f*ck because one reader will say something and another will say the opposite and I'm sure you guys have all experienced that which can get frustrating. Like an example with my situation, some readers say my ex isn't socialising and is like a loner, others say he's out and about being a prat with his friends to escape from it all. Because I haven't had contact from my ex for a while, I also can't validate all things that they pick up. So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.

THIS!! sounds like my situation only I'm trying to keep myself busy to escape the on going confusion. There's nothing worst than having a reading about a POI who you are no longer in contact with. My last reading prior to taking a break said my ex is isolating myself right now and previously I'd been told he was socialising a bit with friends. Maybe his situation has changed, but it's knowing who to put your trust in when there's no contact with and POI.

I've thought about having a reading with Yona but don't really like telephone readings. I can hold out for three weeks, I might see if these other predictions unfold and book a reading with her for the fall. At this point in time I have nothing to loose, if she picks up something negative it may probably free me of the cycle of readings and move on with my life.

It is really frustrating, because at least when you're in contact with the POI you can validate. Like I see people on here say "I know that's not true, as I'm in contact with/see him", so when you guys aren't talking, you can't admit nor deny. Just go off of what you know from when you were last in contact.

And that's also why I want to try Yona, I've never used her before, but I know if she says negative news then it most probably will be. The rest of the readers have all said he'd come back to no avail and time has really gone on, now.

[Lady_C]

Yes.... this is part of why I’ve been calling.

And I think some of the situation in my case is making the tendency to call more frequently particularly worse....

When I actually first started calling again (I went through a horrible phase back in 2002 with calling regarding someone else for many months and spent all money I should have saved. I was very young and foolish and that’s a whole other story).... it was in early May this year and it was in regards to someone totally different. Well the reader who I spoke with, Cookie, who was the only one to pick up anything consistently that has come to pass for me (QofC has also now picked up some surprising very immediate things but not very specific so I’m still not sure) - told me about the new guy I was seeing. And was very adamant about giving me info about this new guy who at the time I thought, eh, no, that’s probably not going anywhere.

But sure enough it did and things have been playing out it seems pretty close to what she predicted. She said it would be a big roller coaster with him (which it was / has been) and that he would start seeing someone else from the same way he met me (same dating app as it turned out) - which he did - and that he would decide between the two of us by Labor Day. And that he would choose me.  Well yes, I found out he was (is?) seeing someone else that he connected with through same dating app and he and I haven’t been in touch hardly at all ...

Because *I* was the one who said look, I think we should just take a break if you want to see other people. If you want to date other people I understand you need to know what you want etc (he’s still going through the very end of a nasty divorce) so let’s just take a break and if you want to date me again and I’m available then maybe it will work out in the future.

But now of course I’m missing him and don’t know what to think about what’s going to happen or not.

So I have this sort of perfect storm of circumstances that’s making me want to call so much and it’s really hard not to. I have been getting better.  And I have been genuinely letting go more. But it almost doesn’t help that Cookie said to me now repeatedly that as I let go and someone who I was letting go of would be part of my healing ... would come back around.

So now I’m in this mental mess of trying to figure out if he’s still with her or not ... I have zero interest in the first guy I was originally calling about back in May.... and I’m trying to wait to see what unfolds. But I am horribly impatient. But at the same time trying to let things be the way they are meant to.

She said I would meet FIVE (lololol) other guys and that one of them I would be just as interested in and someone who I wouldn’t have any question how he felt about me... well I’ve been on two dates and sort of chatted with a third and that ended... and I just honestly don’t see myself meeting anyone else new because I am such a homebody I never go out or go anywhere because I am so busy.

But she also seemed to say that we would reconnect in Sept/Oct and things would be realiy good for a few months... and that it would sort of be up to me but I would need a lot of patience with him if I wanted to stay with him.

So I don’t know.

Last I communicated with him he said he was busy with work and that he’d like to get together once things slowed down. That was 3 wks ago. I spoke with lots of other readers who appear to be highly recommended on here and got very similar info and time frames. But I don’t know if they’re all giving me a line or what.

So I’m waiting to see. And yes it really, really stinks where you’re not in touch with the person. Leaves one much more vulnerable.

Thanks for all the responses to my questions and posts. I really appreciate the support. I honestly need it right now. I’m thinking about a reading with Yona as a last final reading. But 1) think maybe I should wait and see what unfolds and 2) she seems to be very long term outcome focused and I’m more about the short term present right now.

Which is why I have found QofC good and seemingly accurate but she said a couple weeks ago that he was going to reach out by now, then the other day said that yes he’s not alone but not in anything committed, something about travel and work came up that interfered with his contacting me, and that he had emotional walls up but really still liked me but I would have to let him feel like he has space and have to be accommodating for his distance .... but that he did still like me and felt like he wanted to keep me a secret for some reason. She was like, wait, why are you a secret?!?

Sorry for such a long post and thanks again to anyone that took the time to read my story here. I am getting better about reducing my readings. Funny how that coincides with looking at my budget.

I know it's difficult but wait until the time frames to pass before seeking Yona. If you've been given a few similar timelines from readers I would wait for them to unfold first before making another move.

I'm waiting for September to pass since I was told I should hear something from POI this month.

[Lady_C]

Like I've mentioned in other threads, I've tried the readers recommended to me such as Psychic Will and Hazel Lowndes and nothing happened from them. Hazel was very inconsistent and she gave my first reading as positive, second when I raised concerns and questions with her that I just had to get off of my chest - she changed her tune. I wasn't impressed for £70 for less than an hr and her being so inconsistent.. Will - I only had the 1 reading with him as I've contacted him multiple times since and he's ignored me for some reason, but he seemed honest at the time of reading and saw my ex coming back and he never did. Now I know readers can get mixed up, but the things that Hazel and Will were describing and the unique way this guy is - it just had to be him. I have to accept that they got it wrong for me and I haven't met any reader yet that's been closest to correct about what really is going on with my ex.

I haven't tried Yona, and I'm having a reading with another supposed "top rated reader" this weekend, but just not holding out any hope anymore for anything to come to fruitation. I find that relationship readings are really hard to predict and I've not even had close enough luck with them. Perhaps having a reading with Yona is a good idea and she may be good for me. I also find readings a head f*ck because one reader will say something and another will say the opposite and I'm sure you guys have all experienced that which can get frustrating. Like an example with my situation, some readers say my ex isn't socialising and is like a loner, others say he's out and about being a prat with his friends to escape from it all. Because I haven't had contact from my ex for a while, I also can't validate all things that they pick up. So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.

THIS!! sounds like my situation only I'm trying to keep myself busy to escape the on going confusion. There's nothing worst than having a reading about a POI who you are no longer in contact with. My last reading prior to taking a break said my ex is isolating myself right now and previously I'd been told he was socialising a bit with friends. Maybe his situation has changed, but it's knowing who to put your trust in when there's no contact with and POI.

I've thought about having a reading with Yona but don't really like telephone readings. I can hold out for three weeks, I might see if these other predictions unfold and book a reading with her for the fall. At this point in time I have nothing to loose, if she picks up something negative it may probably free me of the cycle of readings and move on with my life.

It is really frustrating, because at least when you're in contact with the POI you can validate. Like I see people on here say "I know that's not true, as I'm in contact with/see him", so when you guys aren't talking, you can't admit nor deny. Just go off of what you know from when you were last in contact.

And that's also why I want to try Yona, I've never used her before, but I know if she says negative news then it most probably will be. The rest of the readers have all said he'd come back to no avail and time has really gone on, now.

It makes it even more additive when there is no communication. My ex isn't on social media which doesn't help so I can't check in on him either, sucks. I think from the readings I've had there certainly aren't far from the truth, I don't think he is in a relationship maybe dating at best. He does like to spend time along so the isolation period could be true.

I've been told things will work out but it will take time, he had issues prior to and centred around the reason we split up. Even though I have my to go readers I know Yona is the most credible source and has the ability to see years ahead unlike most psychics. She really is our last resort. I'm giving it another month at least unless something changes before turning to Yona.