My (S/M) was in a situation where his ex-wife said she would kill herself if he moved on with another woman.
She tried to use Emotional Blackmale on him. It worked for a while because they have a daughter together so he was torn between wanting to start a relationship with me (because at that time we were not in a relationship) or deal with her Emotional Battles. She didn't kill herself although she has in the past made attempts.
I'm proud of him that he made the decision that no matter what she does he is not the blame for her making her decisions. He decided to be with me, but the ordeal has left him in fear of committment. Because the person he married and the person she turned into were two different people. She was very manipulative, and conniving. He just decided that whatever she did was on her. It's tough
My ex stalked me from Feb 2010 till August 2010 I had to move, get police involved ect. It was awful. I understand what you are saying about your situation being different.
As I've said before Ive had (3) who've been right since Day one. They don't push back timeframes. One who I still used told me that my ex was outside of my house while I was on the phone with her. She was right. I was in denial about getting law enforcement involved. But she told me before I broke up with this guy that things wouldn't end smoothly. Had I did what she said I wouldn't gone through the mental anquish I did for 6 months and the financial toll of moving and starting over.
Ive had psychics that paint me fairytales.
All I can say is to each its own. I'm not a psychic expert, but Ive had psychics tell me things that have saved my life and improved the quality of MY LIFE and for that reason alone, when I'm in a SERIOUS Bind I will call again. But if its something I can figure out on my own I now know to stay away!!
But if any of my recent predictions happen I will post!!
Let's continue to support each other no matter what the problems is. That's the key!