I agree talking to readers is very confusing. My take on whether it is a good reading is different. I had readings that make me feel great, but ended up hurting more because they were fairy tales. The best for me is a reader who can deliver difficult accurate readings in a kind way, even if its not easy and doesn't make me feel good in the reading.
A few things Ive learned:
1) some readers are stronger in one area than another, some are strong across the field
2) some have people skills but not good psychic skills, some are not good with people but sh*t hot psychics
3) readers get tired, always better to get them at the beginning of a shift
4) readers have bad days, if Ive heard some reader is good and they are not when I connect with them, I will ask to try another time
5) a really good reader will have your best interests as priority, not theres.
6) Alot of the readers I like are british, Iknow its weird to say but they just seem to be more accurate, better (is that just me, or have other people noticed that to?!) and more proffesional
7) a reader will be good for me for a while and then its time to move on, with a couple of exceptions
a caring reader will encourage your life away from psychic readings and to trust your own self!
it comes down to who you relate well with, trust your feelings, if it doesnt feel right, it is not right.