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LiveLaughLove:
I know how you feel SunandMoon..I felt like that too...What made me want to date others and this is selfish but I wanted to have a distraction from my ex and looking for someone to replace him..but all I found out is there is nobody that will replace him..except for my coworker who I have a great connection with but that's another story! lol

cosmo11:
I know how you guys feel..I mourned the loss of my ex for 6 years. In that 6 years he would contact me every month or so..usually drunk. Even if he wasn't drunk..he was still bitter on the phone towards me. Well, in January I finally decided that I truly had to let him go from my heart. I just accepted that he was never going to come back and even if he did..I didn't want him anyways cause I knew I deserved better. (There's a love out there for you who will never abandon you!!) I completely ignored him for 8 months. Well, anyways, NOW he wants to come back into my life over 6 years later. So it's true that if you let them go they will come back if it's true love. But, like I said I don't want him anymore. There's someone out there for you that will make you so happy and grateful that you DIDN'T end up with your ex. Warm hugs from my heart to all of yours!

sunandmoon:
Mine is not bitter towards me though. In his only drunken state that I saw, he told me he loved me, missed me and wanted to make things better. If he was mean and bitter I'd sure give up on him. But knowing he loves me and is too afraid to do anything about it doesn't make it that much better - end result is the same - we're both alone.

LiveLaughLove:
Thanks Cosmo :)!!

cosmo11:
I just read your story sunandmoon..I can see why it's hard with your love. Not to mention confusing for you. I can't remember what psychic I was talking to(i think dezi), but I was telling her about my ex and how I cut the cord and now he wants to come back. She told me that when you remove your energy it creates some sort of vacuum and your ex can't feel you anymore and it kind of sucks them back in. They panic once they know that you're done with it. Because, for me at least, I know my ex wanted me to be there if he decided he wanted to be with me. Idk, it worked for me..but your situation is different. I hope your love comes around.

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