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LiveLaughLove:
lol! Yea probably! UGH!

I just know some days I'm going to have some good days and some days I'm going to have some bad days...I'm going to just try to have good days...hopefully this dude I'm kinda dating will help with that...we were kinda shaky in the beginning and why we are still just dating but I had a nice talk with him today so hopefully he straightens up!

LiveLaughLove:
So I get the CP newsletter every morning with my horoscope and articles and sometimes I"ll look at the title and decide if I want to read it or not. Today's title was interesting so I opened the email and saw they also had a article regarding Being a Rebound.

I read through it and all I kept thinking was that the girl my ex is with is just that, A REBOUND! Which I already knew of course but reading the article just validated my feelings. It said getting with a man who's emotional unavailable, not over his previous relationship and having to "prove" yourself to a man who's not over his previous relationship and is just lonely puts you in the situation of a rebound. Ummmm hello! That is why my ex got with this girl to begin with! He wanted to replace me and was lonely...and I quote from what he told me while in this relationship in Jan/Feb " I'm not over you"....why this girl didn't see this is beyond me...

Unfortunately like I stated he said he's moved on...so maybe for him this rebound chick worked out for him? Who knows...but at the end of the day, she was a rebound and was being used to replace me being gone....regardless though I still miss him and wish he'd realize that if our relationship was so GREAT (his words) that we should get back together. ;-/ I mean who says "our relationship was great"...not good,not okay but GREAT! If our relationship was great, then what is this relationship? Because last time I checked, GREAT is the highest you can go! :( I need to stop thinking about this, it's making me sad :((

Elaan:
LLL,

It sounds like it is his pride that is hurt.  Ego can make people, especially a man, do crazy, stupid things, even to spite themselves.  Keep faith, because right now that is all we have.   :)

LiveLaughLove:
Thanks Elaan :) I hope this is something where he wants to just teach me a lesson or he is like Deejay stated (& kinda you) he already has or soon realize this is not the girl for him...and makes the move to mend things with us....

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