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Elaan:
LLL,

If your guy is involved with someone else at the moment, it seems rational for him to say that to you in light of your phone call.  What guy wants to admit he's not with the right girl after all of his efforts?  Especially to the girl who broke up with him?  (You did break things off with him, right?  Did I read that somewhere?)  He didn't say you wouldn't ever be together again, and if he was truly gone, he would have said his forever goodbyes.  That was his chance, he didn't take it and left the door open, even if just a crack.  If he is a normal guy, he'll think it over and in the meantime let you stew for awhile.  Just my opinion...

LiveLaughLove:
Elaan:

Youre right, I didn't think of that way....him admitting that to me probably wouldn't had happened...I don't know any guy who admits that much info lol. Men and their pride...espcially Taurus men lol &yes I did break up with him which I think he was hurt over in as much as he went out and found a  rebound chick to replace me lol...and that's understandable (the hurt part)

I know it's still a possibility but Im going to just act as if it's not..so I don't keep my hopes up still you know.

I guess I felt like it was forever because at the end he was like "take care"...that's not a bad thing but to me it's like "holla! see ya!" But then again, I told him that twice before when I ended things (this last time and a time before) so could be using it against me...because saying that does hurt when you really care about someone...Its like "dang he/she doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. They're just brushing me off"..Idk I just try not to think to much into it.

Thanks for that Elaan :)

I just decided to focus on the guy I'm dating now and building something with us...

positivethoughts2:
LLL
I would tend to agree with Elaan. You just don't know what's going to happen. I'm sure you gave him a lot to think about and my guess is he might not have been expecting it (you coming forward).
Ugh!! 

LiveLaughLove:
True true. I'm in the mind frame of not even thinking about it right now. It's like if you can't have him, you don't want anybody else too. Definitely 1 of the hardest things I've ever had to deal with.

I'm going to Vegas in a week so I'm going to focus on the sun, the yummy guys and all the partying I"m going to be doing lol. Hopefully I'll come back without a care in the world :)

Elaan:
LLL,

lol...my guy always said the same thing when he would be mad at me!  Like, "you'd better straighten up, because I'm breaking up with you here....hello...I'm giving you the kiss off...you may commence kissing my ass now."  LOL...I don't think that means anything but what you said.  It was a jab at you for saying that to him.  MEN!!!

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