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What to do?
LiveLaughLove:
Sunandmoon: No I actually broke up with him. Alot was going on with me (I was graduating from college,commuting back and forth for my last year (about a 45 min drive with traffic) and working 30 hours a wk)..I had alot on my plate and I didn't feel like we were communicating that well and I felt that he should had helped with the stress I was under especially with school and make things easier on me until my finals were over but he was being selfish in my opinion by not saying "hey, she's going through it..let me just be there for her and make our relationship easy for the time being" A week after we broke up he was already dating this other girl and 6 wks later he was moving in with her....It's all my fault, I should had just dealt with it instead of walking away I guess..
I normally talk to ppl who use no tools except Julia on CP. She uses astrology..well knowingly..the other advisors might had used astrology esp since they ask for our bdays....Regardless though, none of the predictions for just contact have happened since Feb when I started calling psychics..which is another reason that makes me think maybe I'm just kidding myself and hoping for something that isn't going to happen.
LiveLaughLove:
Well based on what you said coco I shouldn't expect anything from my ex on my birthday. This is so depressing...time to face reality now I guess.
LiveLaughLove:
Yea I know :(. I try and think maybe he is scared or hurt and why he ignores me...and maybe he's not happy in this relationship like I'm assuming he is...but then again maybe he is. I'm thinking maybe I should just listen to the 3 ppl who said he's not coming back...:-/
cocoapple:
LLL, based on experience unless you two had casual communications here and there from when you guys broke up i would say yes he will send you a msg of some sort to let you know he didn't forget your birthday. But after reading your story and situation...unless he's drunk and away from that girl, the chance of him contacting you is pretty slim. Julia said i would actually celebrate HIS birthday with him back in mid June and i was like 'NO WAY' and i think i was more right that any CPs i read with LOL. I find that if you let go of that hope, you will feel a LOT lighter as a person instead of walking around with that heavy energy. I was like that a couple months ago and you can read all my posts from the beginning (when we weren't broken up) to now. I would like mine to crawl back so i can do the kicking this time ;)
Start falling in love with yourself instead and invest your resources, feelings and energy in YOU. After all, you ALWAYS will get a positive return when you invest in yourself ;) So go out and have fun! Keep yourself busy! Dress prettily everyday and smile, listen to happy upbeat tunes and take a look at the world around you and then you'll have a moment like me 'I can do whatever i want and sky is the limit'. Living better is the best revenge.....plus when you have move on, that's when they usually decides to pop up and see how things are going and to remind you that they are still in your life -_-.
LiveLaughLove:
You're right, I don't think he's coming back.
I was keeping busy, I always focus on myself etc....but if thats all I'd have to do to move on, I would have been moved on lol seriously though. It's more to it than that with this person but guess I need to stop hoping for him to come back and leave everything alone.
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