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LiveLaughLove:
Cosmo I agree with you because I've been in that situation before. Before I met my ex, I was dealing with this one guy and we fell out because he was being a a-hole so I cut it off.  The day after I cut him off, I met my then boyfriend and we were together ever since. The guy I was dealing with contacted me three months later saying he was sorry and all that...I forgave him but kept on with my relationship. Even after me and my ex broke up, I didn't deal with the other guy and I swear every month like clockwork he contacts me to say Hi and he was thinking about me and wanted to see how I was doing..lol!! Funny how that goes! He didn't care when I was trying to have patience with him and trying to work things out but now that I give him no time of day, he wants to "check up on me".

But it's hard to just let go sometimes..I know for me it is with my ex....but Im starting to do that right now...hopefully I can keep it up!!

cosmo11:
livelaughlove, you totally can do it! I know it's hard to let go...it took me 6 YEARS haha from when I was 17 to 23 I was devastated. I also got scammed and paid for love spells when I was young (i was desperate). My ex and I dated for 4 years..we were inseparable. It's like a death when someone leaves who was super close to you. So I get it! I just really kept telling myself that he wasn't coming back and I finally accepted that. Every time I thought of him would come into my head I would just push it out of my mind. It felt good to feel powerful again..and to know that the ball is in my court now. lol. It'll be interesting to see if your ex comes back after this. I truly believe that the majority of the people on here will have their ex's come back into their lives eventually because we wouldn't be calling psychics if there wasn't a strong soul connection.

sunandmoon, I also agree with you! It sounds like you have surrendered and will let whatever comes come..and I'm sure he will come back at some point. The 'when' is the tricky part

Just curious...do either of you have dreams about your ex's?

I'll be keeping both of you in my prayers <3

LiveLaughLove:
OMG! Cosmo I feel you!! I purchased love spells myself and was scammed...I even bought some books to do my own spells and nothing ever worked...We weren't together for that long but we had a STRONG connection from day one and I never felt that way towards ANYBODY I dated or been in a relationship with so I knew it was something special you know? Like you said, if it wasn't something special and a soul connection (from my opinion); I wouldn't waste my money on psychics. (I say I'm wasting my money because nothing has come to pass...yet)

I use to have dreams about my ex right after we broke up. It was like a story line. The first dream was me reaching out to him and trying to talk to him and he wasn't having it. He said he'd call me back and I waited by the phone for his call...&he didn't call THEN next dream (maybe a month later) it was him calling me back and his sister in the background who I never met btw, saying Joe, work out things with her. Forget this other chick your with,she's nobody. Next dream I had ( a couple months later) was him telling me how much he missed me and wanting to be with me..and last dream I had (probably in beg of July) I was pregnant and I went into labor when I was out and about shopping so whoever I was with called the ambulance and once I got to the hospital my mom came in my room and I asked her "where's Joe?" because he was the baby's father..which wasn't revealed in the dream until I asked my mom about him. Very weird!! I always felt like my dreams meant something as far as how things were going to come about but maybe,maybe not..Those dream books say dreams about ex's are about other stuff, not what's gonna happen with them..alot having to do with the person in your life at the moment&how your ex effects the relationship but when I was having those dreams, there was nobody so I was confused!

sunandmoon:
Hi Cosmo, I have surrendered best I can but I know I have not let him go completely. I am still not "me" and maybe I need to let go more to get myself back. I am much better than last year though. This whole episode has knocked me flat on my butt and cost me a small fortune between work, psychics and therapy sessions. And now I am asking others for help around the house which I absolutely hate doing. SM keeps offering but he never comes through, and I don't want to be the yet another person in his life making demands on him so I let it slide. I know if we are back together he'll drive me nuts with all he does - and this time I'll accept it much better.

Dreams? Are you kidding? I used to sleep 5 hrs a night at best and I did it all at once. This of course has killed my sleep so I do stay in bed longer trying to get those 5 now sporadic hours. But I dream. OMG do I dream. They go in spurts now and somethings I "ask" to be shown things. Sometimes I find they kick in again if I sleep in the sunroom. I have had prophetic dreams about him and us and I have had dreams so vivid I swore it was real (and cried when I woke up to discover it wasn't). I can lie down up to 12 hours a day now in the hopes I will dream. I am more addicted to dreams than psychics. But I am rarely tired at work anymore.  :)

4everhopeful:
Cosmo11, I am a bit confused. Did you say that your ex did come back to you? Was this predicted? And are the two of you together now?

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