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LiveLaughLove:
Hi All,

I've been following this discussion board since about April or May and alot of the stories that are told are inspiring..but sometimes disappointing when predictions come to pass for others. No I'm not bitter but I've been contacting psychics from Feb (about) and every one I've spoken too (on Keen mostly) have said I was going to hear from my ex every month...Since Feb, I hear that my ex should had contacted me in April,May,June,July and now Aug.

This week,I contacted 1 psychic on CP, one on Contact Psychics (Raven Star) and both said I will hear from my ex this Fall...Sept/Oct. I'm just so tired of being told this stuff and nothing happens. I know that timelines need to be taken with a grain of salt but it pisses me off that everyone elses predictions come true and mine never do. All that I can think of that explains it is either I have bad luck, Im cursed( my mom hates when I say that but alot of stuff NEVER goes my way now matter how much time and effort I put into it) or he's not coming back and I'm being lied too. I've been told twice that my ex won't be coming back which is depressing but when I compare what others say, me being told he is coming back outweighs the two who said he isn't. Catiana (sp) from Ellen's group predicted in June that in Aug I will hear from my ex...so we'll see...a few more wks left. I decided that I am going to call one more; Julia from CP (based on a few recommendations from a thread) and that's it. If by Sept my ex hasn't even CONTACTED me, then I decided Im going to give up and we obviously aren't meant to be together. I believe we all have more than one soul mate and I feel my ex is definitely one of mine..but maybe not the one I'm suppose to be..which is depressing because I want so much for him to be it. I never felt this way about anybody I've dated or been in a relationship with so this whole situation is devastating..makes me not want to fall in love again.

Fortunately (kinda), I'm dating someone now and he seems like he definitely sees something serious coming out of this (last night he invited me to a wedding in Oct in TN..he'd buy my ticket and all that. We live in Cali). The only thing about him is our dating situation has been shaky because there are some things I don't care for in what he does..but he has gotten better so I figured I'd just see where it goes. I would hate to be in a situation with this guy and my ex comes back but at that time I might not want him anymore. Btw, not ONE psychic predicted that I'd meet him...not even the ones who said "no your ex isn't coming back". I asked them "then when is someone going to come in my life even if I just date;not a relationship" and they both say basically next year.

Anyway, I just wanted to share my mini story..and how I'm feeling. I hope things work out for everyone else...and eventually me too...

vanyct:
I don't think you have bad luck, it just maybe that your particular situation is more complicated than other peoples. The predictions that the psychics made for me have not come to pass either. I mainly read with PS but I've also read with a few from Keen (none from Keen were very good). From what I read of other people's posts, those that have had predictions come true, the predictions were of small things like getting a text message or a phone call, I don't think I have seen one post saying that the big prediction came true. There is no guarantee that what the psychics have told you is the truth, especially if you've gotten different stories from them. I don't think you should sit atound waiting for ur ex,first because you don't want to give him that much power and second because you don't know for certain whether what they are saying is true. You don't want to thRow away a good possibility, I speak from experience.

sunandmoon:
Mine is pretty complicated too and while I've had contact timelines come to pass, "the big one" has not. He is still attached to me in little ways, won't let me go completely but sure doesn't give me much to hold on to these days. Completely has me freaked out about a comment he made via email an hour ago. Some days I wish someone else would come into my life and get me off this damn roller coaster! Guy at work seems mildly interested but I don't want to initiate anything.

Anyway, you are not the only one. <hugs>

LiveLaughLove:
Vancyt:Well I haven't even had small predictions come to pass. All my predictions that have been made is that he will contact me in this specific time and we'd be together later on...still haven't heard from him..so none of my predictions have come to pass.

Maybe mine is more complicated than others which still sucks but oh well I guess.
As far as sitting and waiting for my ex, I'm not as I'm dating someone..I don't feel that it will be long term but at least I'm out there and being kind of distracted from the situation from my ex...Anyway though, I plan on giving up on us after Oct when the last prediction is suppose to happen...I'm just hurting myself right now.

SunandMoon:Thanks :) Hugs back!

sunandmoon:
At least you are putting yourself out there! I am still petrified to. I don't want to drag someone else into my hurt world at the moment. I'd sure like a good friend though, I really miss that.

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