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Finding out about an ex
sawthelight:
I can understand how it feels, the readings give us a temporary feeling of relief, if we get good news.
I had instances with the past POI when I was in a similar situation, and I told him not to contact me..and then he usually would after some time had passed anyway.
Either way, it makes sense to reach out and see how he feels at this point, do you think you could handle being his friend now?
Lady_C:
--- Quote from: scarlora on July 30, 2018, 05:07:38 PM ---I have had exes reach out to me several months after our relationship ended and I've always been nice, so I'm not sure you will get your answers unless you ask him directly. Psychics will just confuse you.
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You are right! It's unless depending on a psychics. I'm trying to ween off them and just communicate with him even if he is dating it will put my mind at ease and I will have to accept it and move on. No psychic will be able to help me after learning the truth.
I had one ex reach out to me about 4 months after I stopped speaking to him. I asked psychics about him and got mixed answers so it's a similar pattern.
Lady_C:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on July 30, 2018, 05:43:12 PM ---I can understand how it feels, the readings give us a temporary feeling of relief, if we get good news.
I had instances with the past POI when I was in a similar situation, and I told him not to contact me..and then he usually would after some time had passed anyway.
Either way, it makes sense to reach out and see how he feels at this point, do you think you could handle being his friend now?
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I'm not sure because all I feel is anxiety for not speaking to him for so long nor knowing if he has moved on. I think I could see myself speaking to him sometimes especially if he is seeing someone new because I would never break up a relationship and I would slowly accept it.
I had two negative readings on bitwine - Jiaa and Pixie so I'm confused right now.
Lady_C:
--- Quote from: Cranberry88 on July 30, 2018, 05:41:43 PM ---I would reach out with a normal message
atleast after 6 months of breaking up you will for sure get or feel the answer once he replies back.
Its safer & would certainly give you the final answer from him.
Let us know what happens.
all the best.
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You are right! If he responds it's a starting point and I might get my answer from there. I won't ask him straight away but if we communicate a bit I might be able to find out for myself.
Sooshi:
Who have you read with?
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